Speed dating is a process where men and women come together in a social setting with the express purpose of sitting and talking to each other for a few minutes at a time. The dialogue will be carefully timed by the organizers and at the sound of the buzzer someone new will sit down at your table. If this sounds like an interesting way to meet women (and it can be) there are a few things you want to keep in mind like these speed dating tips, for the best chance of success.
Your Outward Appearance
Although, your Sunday church clothes aren't needed, you do need to ensure that you are dressing well. This will let a woman know you care about how you look and that you aren't too lazy to put on clean clothes. While it might sound a little shallow, most women will determine in the first few second if you are going to be someone to check into, which means the experience goes beyond just the conversation.
Pheromones
One interesting factor to speed dating, or dating in general, is the role pheromones can play. In an exclusive study 20/20 set up twins to go to speed dating events, one twin would wear a pheromones while the other would not. At the end of the informal study, the twin with pheromones received more dates.
Queries
You have a few minutes per "date" to find out how compatible you are, this means questions about where she is from or where she works are practically useless. Create a questions list before the speed dating event and choose a few to use with each woman, be creative and try to determine who she is as much as possible. Ask things like why did your last relationship end, how do you settle an argument and things of that nature.
Attitude
Beyond your looks, women are going to focus on your attitude, so it is very important. This could even be more important than how you look. You must always show that you are sincere and are providing women with a sense of confidence, while showcasing an upbeat personality. When you aren't being genuine with them, women will pick up on it and that can use you to lose her interest faster than most anything else you can do.
Keep Options Open
As you go through the process; don't settle for the first woman you meet. While she might be the best thing you have ever seen, you need to understand that her experience might be very different. You can of course mark her on the scorecard, but keep an open mind on the other possibilities of the night. You just might find what you are looking for with someone later on in the event.
Have Fun
It stands to reason that if you have gone to a round robin dating event, you want to find some dating options. Keep it fun! If you look like you would rather be at a funeral or appear distracted you might as well clock out and go home early. Show your personality and do your best to enjoy yourself, even if you are not meeting the "one".
Important Notice For Guys
Apply these principles and you can stop wondering how to get a girl to want you. Basically, there is one very important thing you should know about speed dating and women. They tend to get together with their friends and do the events as a group. What does this mean for you? Be very careful with scheduling dates afterward. If you contact 3-4 women at the same time, there is a good chance a couple of them are friends and this does not bode well for your chances of a first date, let alone a second.
Your Outward Appearance
Although, your Sunday church clothes aren't needed, you do need to ensure that you are dressing well. This will let a woman know you care about how you look and that you aren't too lazy to put on clean clothes. While it might sound a little shallow, most women will determine in the first few second if you are going to be someone to check into, which means the experience goes beyond just the conversation.
Pheromones
One interesting factor to speed dating, or dating in general, is the role pheromones can play. In an exclusive study 20/20 set up twins to go to speed dating events, one twin would wear a pheromones while the other would not. At the end of the informal study, the twin with pheromones received more dates.
Queries
You have a few minutes per "date" to find out how compatible you are, this means questions about where she is from or where she works are practically useless. Create a questions list before the speed dating event and choose a few to use with each woman, be creative and try to determine who she is as much as possible. Ask things like why did your last relationship end, how do you settle an argument and things of that nature.
Attitude
Beyond your looks, women are going to focus on your attitude, so it is very important. This could even be more important than how you look. You must always show that you are sincere and are providing women with a sense of confidence, while showcasing an upbeat personality. When you aren't being genuine with them, women will pick up on it and that can use you to lose her interest faster than most anything else you can do.
Keep Options Open
As you go through the process; don't settle for the first woman you meet. While she might be the best thing you have ever seen, you need to understand that her experience might be very different. You can of course mark her on the scorecard, but keep an open mind on the other possibilities of the night. You just might find what you are looking for with someone later on in the event.
Have Fun
It stands to reason that if you have gone to a round robin dating event, you want to find some dating options. Keep it fun! If you look like you would rather be at a funeral or appear distracted you might as well clock out and go home early. Show your personality and do your best to enjoy yourself, even if you are not meeting the "one".
Important Notice For Guys
Apply these principles and you can stop wondering how to get a girl to want you. Basically, there is one very important thing you should know about speed dating and women. They tend to get together with their friends and do the events as a group. What does this mean for you? Be very careful with scheduling dates afterward. If you contact 3-4 women at the same time, there is a good chance a couple of them are friends and this does not bode well for your chances of a first date, let alone a second.
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