Do you miss your boyfriend? Do You Want Him Back? Getting him back after a volatile break-up is not as hard as you may think. You just need the right set of guidelines.
When the time comes that he will say yes to you again, you want to be well prepared. You don't want all of your efforts to win him back to be in vain. You do want him back in your life for good, don't you?
If you want him back in your life for good, I have put together 5 suggestions that you can put to immediate use. However, we both know that no two relationships are the same and that every couple has their own dynamic. As you use these suggestions, make them your own and feel free to add or take away from them as needed.
WOW Yourself?
I say this with an inflection because if your self-confidence is in the toilet, do you really expect your ex to get back with you? Being impressed with yourself and loving who you are will emanate from you and your ex will pick up on this.
You shouldn't have to convince anyone that you are a real catch. Anyone including your ex should see that by the way you carry yourself. If you don't believe you are worth having neither will your ex.
Spruce up your appearance a little, especially if you haven't changed your style in awhile. Improving the way you look can do a world of good for your self-confidence.
You can buy some new clothes but don't overdo it, like getting into debt. Whip that terrific body of yours into shape, change your make-up and hairstyle, and voila; you have a new and improved you! Now that you are impressed with you, go get'em girl!
Make A First Impression On Your Ex.
Remember when you two were first going out and you spent hours getting your clothes, hair, and make-up just right? You even rehearsed what you would say to him, didn't you? Well, you should have that same attitude towards him again. You'll be amazed, this works wonders.
If you are having trouble thinking of how to WOW him, allow me to help you out. Does he like to see you in a particular dress with your hair styled a certain way? You should use this knowledge to the fullest extent.
What you can do is go to your old favorite haunts, wear that favorite dress he likes, style your hair differently, and order the usual. When you do these things, this reminds him of how much fun he had with you and that you are still the person he is crazy about.
Strengthen Your Strengths
Impress your soon to be boyfriend again with your strong points. Maybe he has forgotten. Showing off your strengths also reminds him of what he is missing and can't get anywhere else. I know you think that this suggestion is useless but it is not. He does know your character and your strong and weak points.
But by punching up your strong suits reminds him of your excellent qualities in case he forgotten because of the break-up. When he is reminded of what a great gal you are, you remind him of what he is missing and he might be persuaded to give your relationship another shot.
Slow & Easy
Taking it slow is really difficult when you want something to happen right now. But it is never a good idea to jump back into a relationship after it went sour. It is good to take a break from one another to emotionally heal and get to the bottom of the reason why you broke up in the first place.
Do not force anything to happen. If it is to be it will be. If not, you need to move on and realize that your ex was not Mr. Right for you. If you try to force something that won't work, you will only be setting yourself up for another break-up; and I know you don't want that.
Talk To Each Other
This concept is so simple but very few couples understand the power of talking and listening to one another. Yelling, screaming, and hurling insults at one another won't get you anywhere. But when you sit down in a calm manner and listen to his side and he listens to your side, you both understand where one another is coming from.
In most cases, talking can bring you back together. While you are talking, you can get to the heart of why you broke up or what led up to the break-up and why you two responded to each other the way you did. You will also come to the conclusion if you still love one another and want to work on your relationship.
You now have enough truth to begin winning him back. Repairing a relationship doesn't happen over night because it wasn't destroyed overnight. But by putting in the much needed time and patience in working on your relationship, you can get him back for good.
When the time comes that he will say yes to you again, you want to be well prepared. You don't want all of your efforts to win him back to be in vain. You do want him back in your life for good, don't you?
If you want him back in your life for good, I have put together 5 suggestions that you can put to immediate use. However, we both know that no two relationships are the same and that every couple has their own dynamic. As you use these suggestions, make them your own and feel free to add or take away from them as needed.
WOW Yourself?
I say this with an inflection because if your self-confidence is in the toilet, do you really expect your ex to get back with you? Being impressed with yourself and loving who you are will emanate from you and your ex will pick up on this.
You shouldn't have to convince anyone that you are a real catch. Anyone including your ex should see that by the way you carry yourself. If you don't believe you are worth having neither will your ex.
Spruce up your appearance a little, especially if you haven't changed your style in awhile. Improving the way you look can do a world of good for your self-confidence.
You can buy some new clothes but don't overdo it, like getting into debt. Whip that terrific body of yours into shape, change your make-up and hairstyle, and voila; you have a new and improved you! Now that you are impressed with you, go get'em girl!
Make A First Impression On Your Ex.
Remember when you two were first going out and you spent hours getting your clothes, hair, and make-up just right? You even rehearsed what you would say to him, didn't you? Well, you should have that same attitude towards him again. You'll be amazed, this works wonders.
If you are having trouble thinking of how to WOW him, allow me to help you out. Does he like to see you in a particular dress with your hair styled a certain way? You should use this knowledge to the fullest extent.
What you can do is go to your old favorite haunts, wear that favorite dress he likes, style your hair differently, and order the usual. When you do these things, this reminds him of how much fun he had with you and that you are still the person he is crazy about.
Strengthen Your Strengths
Impress your soon to be boyfriend again with your strong points. Maybe he has forgotten. Showing off your strengths also reminds him of what he is missing and can't get anywhere else. I know you think that this suggestion is useless but it is not. He does know your character and your strong and weak points.
But by punching up your strong suits reminds him of your excellent qualities in case he forgotten because of the break-up. When he is reminded of what a great gal you are, you remind him of what he is missing and he might be persuaded to give your relationship another shot.
Slow & Easy
Taking it slow is really difficult when you want something to happen right now. But it is never a good idea to jump back into a relationship after it went sour. It is good to take a break from one another to emotionally heal and get to the bottom of the reason why you broke up in the first place.
Do not force anything to happen. If it is to be it will be. If not, you need to move on and realize that your ex was not Mr. Right for you. If you try to force something that won't work, you will only be setting yourself up for another break-up; and I know you don't want that.
Talk To Each Other
This concept is so simple but very few couples understand the power of talking and listening to one another. Yelling, screaming, and hurling insults at one another won't get you anywhere. But when you sit down in a calm manner and listen to his side and he listens to your side, you both understand where one another is coming from.
In most cases, talking can bring you back together. While you are talking, you can get to the heart of why you broke up or what led up to the break-up and why you two responded to each other the way you did. You will also come to the conclusion if you still love one another and want to work on your relationship.
You now have enough truth to begin winning him back. Repairing a relationship doesn't happen over night because it wasn't destroyed overnight. But by putting in the much needed time and patience in working on your relationship, you can get him back for good.
About the Author:
Do you want to get back in the nook and win his heart forever? The Magic Of making Up holds all the secrets to how to win him back. The methods in this e-book will even help you to get your ex girlfriend back. You will be taught the best tips and tricks. Many men and women say get my ex back but they go about it in all the wrong ways. Are you one of them?
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