Are you not ready for your relationship to be over with your boyfriend? Are you listening to those "I miss my boyfriend songs?" When you break-up with your ex and are apart from him for a week or so, you will have these feelings.
Many men and women have been where you are. Believe me I know. I have been there myself. You begin to use your friends and family as counselors to see if they can offer advice on how to get your ex back.
I can't give you a blanketed answer to this question because every relationship is different. Plus, we all have different personalities. But don't worry, I won't leave you hanging for an answer. I just happen to have some helpful tips on how to win him back.
Don't Be Rude
When men get together and talk about their relationships with their wives or girlfriends, one complaint comes up often. It is nagging. When a woman nags a man, it is just irritating. So, politeness can go a long way.
Don't get me wrong. All women do not nag but if this was a problem in your relationship, whining or nagging at him will only push him further away.
You want to show him that side of you that he fell in love with when you were in the first stages of dating. I am not suggesting to completely alter your personality just to get him back but you should be pleasant and nice to him.
Do you know what it was that attracted him to you? If you do, do it again, show him that side of you he fell head over heels for.
Think back to that moment and give him that same girl he met two years ago. If you think he is not worth the trouble to make a few personality changes, then you really need to rethink the idea of getting back with him.
Don't Play Mind Games
Using deceit and unsavory tactics to win back a man's heart is not the right way to go about things. Many women use pregnancy to lure a man back into a relationship or they will date a guy that their ex boyfriend despises to get him to be jealous.
Just like tricks are for kids, so are silly little games. Using manipulation such as this winds up back-firing on you and this may cause him to dislike you.
Does Jealousy Work?
This is another mind game that should not be used. People often wind up getting emotionally and physically hurt when they find out they were used as a pawn to make someone jealous.
If he wants you back but sees you dating other men, he will get the impression you don't want him anymore. This will encourage him to begin dating other females. So, you see how this can backfire on you?
Does He Have A Girlfriend?
If he has another girlfriend already, getting him back maybe impossible if he finds what he is looking for in this new girl.
Or, he still has deep feelings for you and this new girl is just something to do for right now until he can deal with his true feelings.
Perhaps, he is playing a mind game on you and trying to make you jealous. If this is not the case and he has moved on with another woman, then maybe you should do the same, but with a man.
If some of your mutual friends are telling you that this girl is a rebound and he still has eyes for you, call him up or get in touch with him through a mutual friend and talk to him about your relationship it alone.
Many men and women have been where you are. Believe me I know. I have been there myself. You begin to use your friends and family as counselors to see if they can offer advice on how to get your ex back.
I can't give you a blanketed answer to this question because every relationship is different. Plus, we all have different personalities. But don't worry, I won't leave you hanging for an answer. I just happen to have some helpful tips on how to win him back.
Don't Be Rude
When men get together and talk about their relationships with their wives or girlfriends, one complaint comes up often. It is nagging. When a woman nags a man, it is just irritating. So, politeness can go a long way.
Don't get me wrong. All women do not nag but if this was a problem in your relationship, whining or nagging at him will only push him further away.
You want to show him that side of you that he fell in love with when you were in the first stages of dating. I am not suggesting to completely alter your personality just to get him back but you should be pleasant and nice to him.
Do you know what it was that attracted him to you? If you do, do it again, show him that side of you he fell head over heels for.
Think back to that moment and give him that same girl he met two years ago. If you think he is not worth the trouble to make a few personality changes, then you really need to rethink the idea of getting back with him.
Don't Play Mind Games
Using deceit and unsavory tactics to win back a man's heart is not the right way to go about things. Many women use pregnancy to lure a man back into a relationship or they will date a guy that their ex boyfriend despises to get him to be jealous.
Just like tricks are for kids, so are silly little games. Using manipulation such as this winds up back-firing on you and this may cause him to dislike you.
Does Jealousy Work?
This is another mind game that should not be used. People often wind up getting emotionally and physically hurt when they find out they were used as a pawn to make someone jealous.
If he wants you back but sees you dating other men, he will get the impression you don't want him anymore. This will encourage him to begin dating other females. So, you see how this can backfire on you?
Does He Have A Girlfriend?
If he has another girlfriend already, getting him back maybe impossible if he finds what he is looking for in this new girl.
Or, he still has deep feelings for you and this new girl is just something to do for right now until he can deal with his true feelings.
Perhaps, he is playing a mind game on you and trying to make you jealous. If this is not the case and he has moved on with another woman, then maybe you should do the same, but with a man.
If some of your mutual friends are telling you that this girl is a rebound and he still has eyes for you, call him up or get in touch with him through a mutual friend and talk to him about your relationship it alone.
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