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The Food of Love: Great Tips for Spicing up Your Love Life

By Nick Daly


There are so many ways to add passion and heat to your love life whether you are in a long-term relationship or single and playing the field. It doesn't matter if you or your partner are shy, there are easy ways to introduce exciting new things into your private time together.

One of the best ways to start unleashing your inner fantasies is role play. This gives both of you the chance to let go of inhibitions and take an alternate, more confident role. It can seem like a cheesy choice at first but you don't have to abide by the cliches, let your mind wander into unknown territory and expose parts of your psyche that you perhaps weren't able to before. If you do, however, enjoy the cheesy aspect of role-playing, there are hundreds of stores online where you can purchase thousands of costumes and props to help bring your fantasy to life.

Another extremely popular idea is BDSM which is the idea of showing dominance over your partner either using role-playing ideas or a more physical submissive act using ropes and ties or handcuffs. It may seem a bit extreme for those not used to it, but it does not have to be something scary and uncomfortable. It can, in fact, be a great way to see how far you can go with regards to what you find pleasurable and can also be a good exercise in mutual trust between yourself and your partner. Do some research into the different kinds of bondage and you will be able to find something to suit your personalities and sexual style without making yourself or your partner feel uncomfortable or nervous.

It may seem silly at first, but using food in your love life is a great way to introduce shy or reserved people to other sexual exploits. If your partner is wary of trying new things and perhaps embarrassing themselves, it can be a good way to lighten the mood and bring some fun back into sex without the fear of looking silly. Fruit and chocolate are the two most commonly used food types but anything sweet can be a good choice. Melt the chocolate and feed each other chocolate and cream-dipped berries, don't be afraid to spill a little and lick it off, you will be able to notice and arouse parts of your partner's body that you may not have thought about before.

Embracing the seemingly odd sexual practices on our list may seem like a bit too much of an adventure for some couples but don't forget you can take them as seriously or as gently as you like, the bondage for instance, does not have to be hard restraints and scary costumes, it can be simple and romantic and give you the chance to experience a submissive role. It's a great way to try new things and perhaps unleash something inside yourself that you didn't know was there; also great for new and old couples alike!




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