You finally manage to approach a pretty woman. Utilizing your incredible interaction abilities, you strike up a conversation without getting slapped or laughed away. The conversation with this girl is going excellent. She's smiling, giggling, clearly becoming more interested and more intrigued as the conversation rolls along.
Then ... you get it: a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a total halt and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than your ego. She looks at you with expectantly, then with disappointedly, then disinterestedly, then dismissively. Game over.
So what can you do to pull the conversational free fall back into the high flying conversation it was? You go into your toolbox. Your interaction skills toolbox. You are about to learn one of the downright best conversation-saving tools available. This is a surefire method to save any interaction with a girl, PLUS it's so perfectly constructed, that it quickly allows for sexual innuendo to obtain her mind "in the right place" while still masquerading as pure, non-needy and fun banter.
It's a little game I like to call "SMK" and it will be your new best friend. When you deploy the SMK game, any drooping conversation will instantly be turned around. You will leap beyond the average dork that approaches her with the same old boring pickup lines and dull conversations.
When you begin to run out of things to say, when you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down ... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real quick." Her eyes will sparkle with interest. This is definitely a departure from the typical night-time drivel she's accustomed to dealing with. She will almost definitely welcome you to proceed.
Onwards the game. Start to look around the area, evaluating the other guys you see and begin to point them out one at a time, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll look over at your target and size him up. Pick different kinds of men representing the spectrum of character types and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A handsome guy. A musician. A business man.
This will have several effects:
1) You will get an idea into exactly what she values in a guy, and how she operates. She will provide really direct clues to how she wishes to be seduced. If she says "sleep with" to the musician, "marry" to the nerdy guy, and "kill" to the man in a business suit ... then you can guess that she's got a wild side, she does not like guys with a great deal of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think of that ... she'll essentially be giving you a HUGE hint into how you can seduce her.
2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so essential to the first stage of the interaction with her. Keep conversation light, non-needy, witty and fun! Make fun and silly projections about who you suspect she'd sleep with, marry and kill. It will be remarkably easy as she's alternating between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, flinching at the dopey men, and changing to her ooh... voice with the men that she finds sexy.
3) Which brings me to my next point...SHE WILL GET TURNED ON. Remember, you are asking her to bring the thought "who do I want to fuck?" into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was generated by and shared with you...and only you.
4) Finally ... she will see that you are 100 % confident in your sexuality and your potential to draw in women. You can confidently go over the theoretical thought of her sleeping with other men, and that doesn't threaten you. 99.99% of men would be terrified to even suggest that she even check out another guy while he's talking to her! Your confidence here will be very hot to girls.
After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be quite turned on by your imagination, your wit, and your self-confidence ... This sets you up PERFECTLY to shift into the next stage of interaction, which develops upon the sexual energy built upon in this game, particularly if you've been correctly blending in the right "sexual triggers" that all ladies have.
Then ... you get it: a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a total halt and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than your ego. She looks at you with expectantly, then with disappointedly, then disinterestedly, then dismissively. Game over.
So what can you do to pull the conversational free fall back into the high flying conversation it was? You go into your toolbox. Your interaction skills toolbox. You are about to learn one of the downright best conversation-saving tools available. This is a surefire method to save any interaction with a girl, PLUS it's so perfectly constructed, that it quickly allows for sexual innuendo to obtain her mind "in the right place" while still masquerading as pure, non-needy and fun banter.
It's a little game I like to call "SMK" and it will be your new best friend. When you deploy the SMK game, any drooping conversation will instantly be turned around. You will leap beyond the average dork that approaches her with the same old boring pickup lines and dull conversations.
When you begin to run out of things to say, when you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down ... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real quick." Her eyes will sparkle with interest. This is definitely a departure from the typical night-time drivel she's accustomed to dealing with. She will almost definitely welcome you to proceed.
Onwards the game. Start to look around the area, evaluating the other guys you see and begin to point them out one at a time, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll look over at your target and size him up. Pick different kinds of men representing the spectrum of character types and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A handsome guy. A musician. A business man.
This will have several effects:
1) You will get an idea into exactly what she values in a guy, and how she operates. She will provide really direct clues to how she wishes to be seduced. If she says "sleep with" to the musician, "marry" to the nerdy guy, and "kill" to the man in a business suit ... then you can guess that she's got a wild side, she does not like guys with a great deal of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think of that ... she'll essentially be giving you a HUGE hint into how you can seduce her.
2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so essential to the first stage of the interaction with her. Keep conversation light, non-needy, witty and fun! Make fun and silly projections about who you suspect she'd sleep with, marry and kill. It will be remarkably easy as she's alternating between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, flinching at the dopey men, and changing to her ooh... voice with the men that she finds sexy.
3) Which brings me to my next point...SHE WILL GET TURNED ON. Remember, you are asking her to bring the thought "who do I want to fuck?" into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was generated by and shared with you...and only you.
4) Finally ... she will see that you are 100 % confident in your sexuality and your potential to draw in women. You can confidently go over the theoretical thought of her sleeping with other men, and that doesn't threaten you. 99.99% of men would be terrified to even suggest that she even check out another guy while he's talking to her! Your confidence here will be very hot to girls.
After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be quite turned on by your imagination, your wit, and your self-confidence ... This sets you up PERFECTLY to shift into the next stage of interaction, which develops upon the sexual energy built upon in this game, particularly if you've been correctly blending in the right "sexual triggers" that all ladies have.
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