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How To Start A Conversation With A Girl

By Mervin Ransbottom


A lot of guy nowadays are don't know on how they will start to have conversation with a girl they like. They feel shy to approach a girl that they like. So here are some ways on how to start a conversation with a girl.

After getting her attention, try to compliment her by keeping your words polite and genuine. You can tell her she has a beautiful smile or she looks very beautiful with her dress. Tell her something that will make her feel special. Just be careful not to tell her overwhelmed compliments that she does not have as you will sound insincere to what you say to her. To relive the tension between the both of you, you can try a pick up line. Pick up lines may sound awkward but it is a great way to make a girl laugh or get her attention. The secret in delivering a nice pickup line is by delivering it confidently otherwise it will sound creepy or cheesy.

If you intend to start a flirtatious conversation with a girl you really have to focus on non-verbal cues. You can use facial expressions, body language, or even turn your non-flirtatious compliments into comments with romantic tone. You can do this by maintaining eye contact and good smile. Just make sure to avoid negative body languages such as looking down her chest or crossing your arms as these will make you look creepy.

Your overall behavior is very important when starting a conversation with a girl. Project confidence, the key to a successful flirtatious conversation is confidence. Girls are more attracted to men that are capable, self-assured, and comfortable talking to women. Try to speak clearly and confidently, you must delivers your words and its message clearly and understandable.

Body language can be disloyal to you, so make sure to keep upright position when you walk to her, keep your eye on her and make sure that the girl sees you coming. As much as possible never user passive body language and pitch like you are pleading her to have you and don't show that you are edgy.

Try to avoid controversial topics and yes or no question. Questions that can be easily answered with a yes or no are not good recipes in starting a conversation with a girl as it will finish the conversation that you haven't started yet. Try to make open-minded question that needs thoughtful answer. This will buy you a time with her. Try to as her questions that start from what if? Or something that needs longer time before answered.

Also, starting a conversation with a girl with controversial topics can make her feel uncomfortable, awkward, or even angry. Avoid asking her views about politics and religion as these are not effective. Try to start a conversation by praising her, asking her dreams, and other topics that are worth talking about.




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