One of the most important parts of how to text a girl you like is to know when and how often to text her. So, in this article, I'm going to be answering the questions, "How often should you text a girl?", "When to text a girl you just met?" and, "What to do when a woman doesn't respond to your text?"First off, let me just say that I know how easy it can be to get all worked up about texting a girl, especially a girl you really like. You get really excited and want to text her every chance you get.The problem is by being so invested in her you are already on a fast track to needy behavior and this will only push her away. It's important to have the right mindset so that you can keep you cool.
With that being said, the key to texting a girl is not to over do it. You don't want to be texting her all day, everyday. Even if she text you back every single time, it still lowers your value and make it seem like you have nothing better going on in your life.Now I'm not saying that you should never reply to a girls text right way. You can. Just mix it up a little bit and keep it unpredictable. Sometime wait 10 minutes. Sometime wait an hour. And sometime just leave her hanging.That's right. When ever possible, you should let her have the last word in the conversation by not replying to her text. By doing this you leave and open loop in her mind and it gets her thinking about you, wondering if you'll text back.
Today, information is everything and it's easier than before to convey. We have so many means of communication that perform so fast, you can convey any message you want to anyone. And that is what makes it tricky. That girl probably gets dozens of messages a day, from people you don't even want to consider. So, in order to not get lost in the sea of people she is in touch with, you need something to set you apart. You need her to be able to identify one of your texts from ten others. So think about what words, phrases and emoticons set you apart and use them.
The Mass Text Message is one to be used sparingly and it also must seem that this text message could be interpreted as a single private message so as an example you could say something like "hey, everyone is going down to the *bar* tonight would like to see your face there!"
A text conversation is not the same as an actual conversation. In a text you should only put the essential information, cut the formalities and jump straight into an interesting topic. The point of text messaging is not to get to know each other. The point is to reveal just enough to get the other person curious and interested to find out the rest about you in person. So, don't try to impress a girl with a long, dry, logical text. She will most likely not fall for it. Because most girls find logic the opposite of attraction. Remember what I said: spark her curiosity gradually and reveal the rest in person. After a few texts, you should suggest a meet-up.
Use this one sparingly as well but one thing you can do is use words like come and get off in a subtle (not sure what he means way) If she mentions it in a sexual way say back to her in a PLAYFUL way that she should really get her mind out of the gutter.The cellular phone is one of the most popular devices these days. With its portable nature, any one can carry it all the time regardless of where they are going. Young kids, students, teens, and professionals usually carry mobile phones everyday. This is an excellent way to stay connected but did you know that you can also use it for generating dates?
This might sound funny to you but the truth is a lot of guys were able to win the hearts of women through text messaging. Calling can be a bit costly but if you send text messages, you can save a lot depending on your network. Texting is common these days and it's time to use this tool to your advantage.
Not over doing your text messages is important. You don't want to overwhelm her with too many texts or she'll get tired of them and you'll blow it. Most girls like guys who are not desperate, so you don't want to seem needy.Sending her a humorous text will help when trying to connect. You need to know some special tricks for humor which are covered in the eBook below.
Being to serious or deep is a sure-fire way of losing a new friend. This rubs off on girls the wrong way and can pass on negative, and depressing vibes, which you don't want. Being happy or playful will give her good feelings, and when she thinks of you, she will have good thoughts, which will give you a long-lasting benefit. It could also divert their attention from problems they might have, and help them to look at the brighter side of things, which is a big help sometimes.
Now that you know the things you should do, you should also be aware of the things that you need to avoid. Never reveal too much about yourself in the text messages. It's fine that you ask her questions but be sure to get a lot of questions in return. You don't have to answer all her queries but make it polite. You should always maintain a good etiquette even over the phone. If the girl does not reply to your text messages, don't text her with bad words or statements. Again, be patient. Who knows, perhaps her phone does not have enough credits to reply to your messages or she's busy at the moment.
With that being said, the key to texting a girl is not to over do it. You don't want to be texting her all day, everyday. Even if she text you back every single time, it still lowers your value and make it seem like you have nothing better going on in your life.Now I'm not saying that you should never reply to a girls text right way. You can. Just mix it up a little bit and keep it unpredictable. Sometime wait 10 minutes. Sometime wait an hour. And sometime just leave her hanging.That's right. When ever possible, you should let her have the last word in the conversation by not replying to her text. By doing this you leave and open loop in her mind and it gets her thinking about you, wondering if you'll text back.
Today, information is everything and it's easier than before to convey. We have so many means of communication that perform so fast, you can convey any message you want to anyone. And that is what makes it tricky. That girl probably gets dozens of messages a day, from people you don't even want to consider. So, in order to not get lost in the sea of people she is in touch with, you need something to set you apart. You need her to be able to identify one of your texts from ten others. So think about what words, phrases and emoticons set you apart and use them.
The Mass Text Message is one to be used sparingly and it also must seem that this text message could be interpreted as a single private message so as an example you could say something like "hey, everyone is going down to the *bar* tonight would like to see your face there!"
A text conversation is not the same as an actual conversation. In a text you should only put the essential information, cut the formalities and jump straight into an interesting topic. The point of text messaging is not to get to know each other. The point is to reveal just enough to get the other person curious and interested to find out the rest about you in person. So, don't try to impress a girl with a long, dry, logical text. She will most likely not fall for it. Because most girls find logic the opposite of attraction. Remember what I said: spark her curiosity gradually and reveal the rest in person. After a few texts, you should suggest a meet-up.
Use this one sparingly as well but one thing you can do is use words like come and get off in a subtle (not sure what he means way) If she mentions it in a sexual way say back to her in a PLAYFUL way that she should really get her mind out of the gutter.The cellular phone is one of the most popular devices these days. With its portable nature, any one can carry it all the time regardless of where they are going. Young kids, students, teens, and professionals usually carry mobile phones everyday. This is an excellent way to stay connected but did you know that you can also use it for generating dates?
This might sound funny to you but the truth is a lot of guys were able to win the hearts of women through text messaging. Calling can be a bit costly but if you send text messages, you can save a lot depending on your network. Texting is common these days and it's time to use this tool to your advantage.
Not over doing your text messages is important. You don't want to overwhelm her with too many texts or she'll get tired of them and you'll blow it. Most girls like guys who are not desperate, so you don't want to seem needy.Sending her a humorous text will help when trying to connect. You need to know some special tricks for humor which are covered in the eBook below.
Being to serious or deep is a sure-fire way of losing a new friend. This rubs off on girls the wrong way and can pass on negative, and depressing vibes, which you don't want. Being happy or playful will give her good feelings, and when she thinks of you, she will have good thoughts, which will give you a long-lasting benefit. It could also divert their attention from problems they might have, and help them to look at the brighter side of things, which is a big help sometimes.
Now that you know the things you should do, you should also be aware of the things that you need to avoid. Never reveal too much about yourself in the text messages. It's fine that you ask her questions but be sure to get a lot of questions in return. You don't have to answer all her queries but make it polite. You should always maintain a good etiquette even over the phone. If the girl does not reply to your text messages, don't text her with bad words or statements. Again, be patient. Who knows, perhaps her phone does not have enough credits to reply to your messages or she's busy at the moment.
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