Being patient when trying to get back together with your girlfriend is difficult. There's no question about it. You worry that someone else is going to come along and scoop her up, if that isn't the case already. You worry that she's going to forget about you. You worry that she's going to get used to living her life without you. But even more, you just worry that the window of opportunity is closing so you're frantic to find a solution to your problem and get her back as soon as possible.
It's natural to be a little anxious about getting your girlfriend back. It's natural to get upset, nervous, suspicious and jealous. It's natural to doubt that she'll ever give you that second chance but the fact is that these emotions can cause us to do drastic things that can kill our chances of winning back the woman that we love. Our impatient nature can cause us to do stupid things that actually make matters worse rather than better.
A common reaction to this fear and all these emotions is to come up with a plan or scheme to get our ex back that goes something like this. We first try to apologize to our ex. We might make a list of things that we did wrong or things that we didn't do when we were in the relationship. We promise to do everything right. We tell our ex that we're sorry and that everything will be fine if they will only give us a second chance. We can change and we might even show our ex the things that we have begun to change.
Of course, that didn't solve your problem so you came up with a new plan. You felt that if you were kind to her and acted like everything was going to be fine then she would take you back. You possibly even bought her a present. You thought you would be clever and tell her that it was a surprise that you hadn't told her about but that you wanted her to gave it. When none of that worked you broke down in front of her. Perhaps you even shed some tears and begged her to give you another chance. Your love for her is real and your devotion is true but her heart has turned cold towards you.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
Women are a little bit different than men when it comes to emotions such as love. You need to understand that she has made a big decision. She has probably told all the people close to her that your relationship is over. In order for her to get back together with you she is going to have to feel some emotions powerful enough to overcome that decision. She will need to feel such passion that she doesn't care what her friends and family think. It's your job to understand her and what she needs to feel in order to love you that way again.
It certainly is possible to win her back by hitting her emotional hot buttons. It's might not be easy for you but it is rather simple. Like many things in life, it's only when we really care that things get difficult. If you didn't care about her and love her then it would be a piece of cake to win her over. Your heart is involved though. You want things to work out so it's important that you have a well laid out plan that is bomb proof and effective.
It's natural to be a little anxious about getting your girlfriend back. It's natural to get upset, nervous, suspicious and jealous. It's natural to doubt that she'll ever give you that second chance but the fact is that these emotions can cause us to do drastic things that can kill our chances of winning back the woman that we love. Our impatient nature can cause us to do stupid things that actually make matters worse rather than better.
A common reaction to this fear and all these emotions is to come up with a plan or scheme to get our ex back that goes something like this. We first try to apologize to our ex. We might make a list of things that we did wrong or things that we didn't do when we were in the relationship. We promise to do everything right. We tell our ex that we're sorry and that everything will be fine if they will only give us a second chance. We can change and we might even show our ex the things that we have begun to change.
Of course, that didn't solve your problem so you came up with a new plan. You felt that if you were kind to her and acted like everything was going to be fine then she would take you back. You possibly even bought her a present. You thought you would be clever and tell her that it was a surprise that you hadn't told her about but that you wanted her to gave it. When none of that worked you broke down in front of her. Perhaps you even shed some tears and begged her to give you another chance. Your love for her is real and your devotion is true but her heart has turned cold towards you.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
Women are a little bit different than men when it comes to emotions such as love. You need to understand that she has made a big decision. She has probably told all the people close to her that your relationship is over. In order for her to get back together with you she is going to have to feel some emotions powerful enough to overcome that decision. She will need to feel such passion that she doesn't care what her friends and family think. It's your job to understand her and what she needs to feel in order to love you that way again.
It certainly is possible to win her back by hitting her emotional hot buttons. It's might not be easy for you but it is rather simple. Like many things in life, it's only when we really care that things get difficult. If you didn't care about her and love her then it would be a piece of cake to win her over. Your heart is involved though. You want things to work out so it's important that you have a well laid out plan that is bomb proof and effective.
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