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The Grieving Process And Getting Your Ex Back

By Ruth Lang


Wanting to regain the love of someone that you feel very strongly for is an honorable goal. Wanting to love and be loved is a human need, after all. None of us wants to spend our life alone and only a few times in your life do you meet someone that you truly connect with.

Acceptance that your old relationship is over and looking to the future is the key to your happiness. How do you move on with your life yet remain optimistic that things will work out between you and your ex?

There are many different problems that happen in a romantic relationship that can lead to a breakup. Sometimes we make mistakes that we later regret. Perhaps our partner becomes the target of someone else's charming ways and flattery and they are lured away from us. Other times life gets in the way of our relationship and problems with family, friends, money, time and general problems in life cause us to drift apart in our relationship.

No matter what the problem is though, there is a solution and a way to bring the love that we once shared back. You must be patient, understanding and always remember that no matter what is going on at the present moment, things will always change. It's up to you whether they change for the better or worse.

These emotions very well might come back when we are reunited with our ex and cause problems. Unresolved resentment could cause you to become angry when you do get back together with your ex or if you do decide to get into a relationship with someone else. This is why it's important to feel these emotions and work through them now when you're alone.

Any time you feel these doubts and anxieties coming to mind when you start to think about getting back together with your ex, look past them and know that in the future things will be different. Your ability to get back together with your girlfriend is all within your hands and the sooner you get your life back together and get back to being the kind of guy that she used to enjoy spending time with, the sooner she'll be back in your life again. Acting crazy and worrying and being depressed isn't going to win her over. Being funny, cool and knowing in your heart that she will fall in love with you again will get her back.

Be sure in your heart that you are worthy of the love that you desire. Feel it in every part of your being. You deserve to be loved by that one special person. It's natural. If you truly love your ex then you will be patient and understanding. You can put your own needs aside and take advantage of this time alone to work on yourself. Spend some time thinking about things from your ex's point of view. How would you feel if you needed some space and time to figure things out in your relationship but your partner was being selfish and kept on pressuring you? Give your ex all the space and time they need and then surprise them when they do check to see how you've been doing.

Take some time and grieve. Allow yourself to experience that pain but put a limit on the grieving process. Once you begin to feel better about yourself then you'll know that it's time to get to work. Soon it will be time to focus on yourself, your needs and your life. Once you begin to care for yourself and love yourself, you will find that you become more attractive to other people in your life, including your ex. The faster you get past the grieving process and on to rebuilding your life, the sooner you will find that your ex will come back to you. Remember that it's always when we're busy with other things that wonderful things happen. When you least expect it, your ex will walk right back into your life.




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