Are you someone who gets nervous easily when you see a beautiful woman and have no idea how to go about approaching that girl you like? This is a very common reaction that most men have, and it is certainly possible to get over this nervousness if you know exactly how to approach. Most men do not have the nerves the approach the girl they like and even if they do, have no idea how to proceed after even after starting up a conversation with the girl. In this article, I will share you some key tips that will make sure you make a successful approach every time.
1. Find a Way to Exit Quickly after Approaching
Most men like to stick around the girl they first approach, but this is a huge mistake that most men, including myself, made in our first approaches. During the first few minutes of your interaction, you need to make sure you have limited time for conversation and it limits the potential number of mistakes that you make. This means that you should be able to find a reason to keep the first time approach short and quick. This will prevent you from making some obvious mistakes that could ruin your chance with her.
2. What Then Should You Do When You Approach a Girl You Like?
The only thing you should really be worried about during that first minutes is to get your contact information, usually her email address or phone number. The conversation should be short as it is only meant for introductions. Once that is done, you should not stick around any longer. This whole process should not take more than 2 to 5 minutes, and with that contact information you just got, contact them at a later time when you have time. This is important because you need to show her that you have your own life to live and you do not need her approval.
3a. Mistake #1 of Approaching: Being Too Direct
Avoid hinting at her romantically or sexually on that first approach. Most men think that they should let the woman know right on that first approach, but this is usually bad timing. Examples of such mistakes are asking her for a date right away, asking her if she is attached or just trying to convince her that they are the right guy for her. Worse still, some take it even further by trying to tell the girl how wonderful the date is going to be, what they'll be doing when the girl has no desire to hear those things right when you have just approached.
3b. Mistake #2 of Approaching: Not Dressing Right
First impressions are very important when approaching a girl you like. Your dressing should thus be presentable and neat at the same time. Wearing fitting clothes is important, and avoid wearing too flashy items. You should be neat and well groomed for the approach, and then go out there and practice until you succeed. This will give you the desired confidence when approaching a girl. With these tips, you will be able to gather enough courage in your quest.
1. Find a Way to Exit Quickly after Approaching
Most men like to stick around the girl they first approach, but this is a huge mistake that most men, including myself, made in our first approaches. During the first few minutes of your interaction, you need to make sure you have limited time for conversation and it limits the potential number of mistakes that you make. This means that you should be able to find a reason to keep the first time approach short and quick. This will prevent you from making some obvious mistakes that could ruin your chance with her.
2. What Then Should You Do When You Approach a Girl You Like?
The only thing you should really be worried about during that first minutes is to get your contact information, usually her email address or phone number. The conversation should be short as it is only meant for introductions. Once that is done, you should not stick around any longer. This whole process should not take more than 2 to 5 minutes, and with that contact information you just got, contact them at a later time when you have time. This is important because you need to show her that you have your own life to live and you do not need her approval.
3a. Mistake #1 of Approaching: Being Too Direct
Avoid hinting at her romantically or sexually on that first approach. Most men think that they should let the woman know right on that first approach, but this is usually bad timing. Examples of such mistakes are asking her for a date right away, asking her if she is attached or just trying to convince her that they are the right guy for her. Worse still, some take it even further by trying to tell the girl how wonderful the date is going to be, what they'll be doing when the girl has no desire to hear those things right when you have just approached.
3b. Mistake #2 of Approaching: Not Dressing Right
First impressions are very important when approaching a girl you like. Your dressing should thus be presentable and neat at the same time. Wearing fitting clothes is important, and avoid wearing too flashy items. You should be neat and well groomed for the approach, and then go out there and practice until you succeed. This will give you the desired confidence when approaching a girl. With these tips, you will be able to gather enough courage in your quest.
About the Author:
Do you want to learn the best tips on how to approach a girl you like? Leonard Calvin is a dating expert who specializes in helping men learn good flirting tips. You can visit his website at How to Attract a Girl Tips and get a 30 Seconds Seduction Secrets mini-course for FREE!
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