Do you wonder if that guy you like has romantic feelings for you? Are you afraid to ask him out but there are times when you are sure that he likes you. At other times, you're just not sure if he's interested in you. How can you know for sure if a man is attracted to you? What are some of the signs that the man you are dreaming about has romantic thoughts about you?
While it might easier if men would just come right out and tell you how they feel about you, where's the challenge in that? Dating and romance is a dance and even though you might feel like you're going crazy, this is the thrill of falling in love. Real men typically won't come right out and tell you that they're falling for you. Men are taught by society at a very young age that they should bury their feelings and keep their emotions inside. Although this might make things difficult for you, there are some signs that a guy is interested in you that will become apparent in his body or, more precisely, his body language.
Has the guy you're interested in ever touched you? Have you noticed that sometimes when he's talking with you that he will gently touch your arm or even poke you, as if joking? Have you ever felt him touch your back when he holds a door open for you? Is it as if he has a need to touch you when you're near? All of these are a good sign that he is attracted to you. He feels a connection with you and although he might not be able to hug you or kiss you at this moment in time, touching you is a non-verbal show of affection that is safe for him to use to express his desire for you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Of course, there are guys that have been hurt in the past who might not abide by this rule. Shy guys will often avoid directly facing a woman that they are interested in. Also, if you're at a bar, it might be more difficult to face you directly than if you are sitting across from each other at a small table in a restaurant. Take notice the next time you are alone together. Notice if he faces you directly and what direction his feet are pointing.
A man's eyes are the next place you will want to look to see if he is interested in you. When a man is falling in love, his eyes will sparkle when he smiles at the object of his desire. Do his eyes sparkle when you smile at him? Does he have a genuine smile that can be seen in his eyes? It's impossible for a man to control this sign of attraction so take notice of his eyes the next time you meet and see if his eyes sparkle when he sees you.
Try not to get concerned if he looks away or avoids eye contact for more than a few moments when you check to see if his eyes are sparkling. There are guys that are shy and sometimes awkwardly shy when they come face to face with a woman that they adore. It could be that he has some self-esteem issues or that he feels that you're way out of his league if he looks away. It's not that he doesn't find you attractive. The exact opposite is true. Let him become more sure of you and that you're not going to break his heart and you will see those sparkling eyes all the time.
All of these are great signs that the man that you desire is attracted to you. While men might be emotionally repressed at times, these tell-tale signs should tell you everything that you need to know. Men, in general, are poor at expressing their emotions or even recognizing them sometimes. This is why their body does it for them without them even knowing. Let your relationship move forward without spoken words for the moment and be glad that you know that he is attracted to you. There will come a day when he will be able to tell you how awesome he thinks you are but until then read his body language and know that you're on the right path.
While it might easier if men would just come right out and tell you how they feel about you, where's the challenge in that? Dating and romance is a dance and even though you might feel like you're going crazy, this is the thrill of falling in love. Real men typically won't come right out and tell you that they're falling for you. Men are taught by society at a very young age that they should bury their feelings and keep their emotions inside. Although this might make things difficult for you, there are some signs that a guy is interested in you that will become apparent in his body or, more precisely, his body language.
Has the guy you're interested in ever touched you? Have you noticed that sometimes when he's talking with you that he will gently touch your arm or even poke you, as if joking? Have you ever felt him touch your back when he holds a door open for you? Is it as if he has a need to touch you when you're near? All of these are a good sign that he is attracted to you. He feels a connection with you and although he might not be able to hug you or kiss you at this moment in time, touching you is a non-verbal show of affection that is safe for him to use to express his desire for you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Of course, there are guys that have been hurt in the past who might not abide by this rule. Shy guys will often avoid directly facing a woman that they are interested in. Also, if you're at a bar, it might be more difficult to face you directly than if you are sitting across from each other at a small table in a restaurant. Take notice the next time you are alone together. Notice if he faces you directly and what direction his feet are pointing.
A man's eyes are the next place you will want to look to see if he is interested in you. When a man is falling in love, his eyes will sparkle when he smiles at the object of his desire. Do his eyes sparkle when you smile at him? Does he have a genuine smile that can be seen in his eyes? It's impossible for a man to control this sign of attraction so take notice of his eyes the next time you meet and see if his eyes sparkle when he sees you.
Try not to get concerned if he looks away or avoids eye contact for more than a few moments when you check to see if his eyes are sparkling. There are guys that are shy and sometimes awkwardly shy when they come face to face with a woman that they adore. It could be that he has some self-esteem issues or that he feels that you're way out of his league if he looks away. It's not that he doesn't find you attractive. The exact opposite is true. Let him become more sure of you and that you're not going to break his heart and you will see those sparkling eyes all the time.
All of these are great signs that the man that you desire is attracted to you. While men might be emotionally repressed at times, these tell-tale signs should tell you everything that you need to know. Men, in general, are poor at expressing their emotions or even recognizing them sometimes. This is why their body does it for them without them even knowing. Let your relationship move forward without spoken words for the moment and be glad that you know that he is attracted to you. There will come a day when he will be able to tell you how awesome he thinks you are but until then read his body language and know that you're on the right path.
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