As the minutes turn into hours which turn into days since your ex broke up with you, your only thought is how to get your ex to feel the love that once burned brightly in their heart for you. There must be a way. There must be a solution. What should you do to heal your broken relationship? Your family and friends see your torment and the best advice that they can offer is for you to move on and forget about your ex.
You might not want to admit it but the advice to move on with your life is probably the best advice for you at this particular moment. This is not to say that you have to give up on your dream of getting back together with your ex. Your heart feels what it feels. You can't change that, but you can't continue to put your life on hold while you wait for your ex to realize that they love you again. Wasting weeks or months of your life waiting for the days to pass is a waste of time. You must do something to preserve your sanity. Improving your life in a big way and taking your mind off of your ex for a short while might be the greatest thing that you ever did in your life. This moment in time can change your life for the better.
Take advantage of this time apart from your ex and start a small business. The freedom of having your own business will be very attractive to your ex and the added income can make life easier when you get back together. If you have every thought of having your own business then this period in your life might be the perfect time to move forward with that plan.
Taking a step back and diving head first into a business might be just what you need right now. Your focus will no longer be on your ex, what they're doing, what you can do to get them back or what went wrong in the past. Your focus will be on building something wonderful that will serve you, your life and very well the life that you build with your ex in the future. You will also have an easier time understanding what went wrong in your relationship once your mind is no longer obsessing about your ex. In addition, if you had been putting a lot of pressure on your ex to get back together, focusing on something else, such as a business, will remove that pressure. You might be surprised by the changes in your ex once you back off and begin focusing on your own life for a change. Starting a small business is a great way to do that while achieving something that most people only dream of.
If you have ever had the dream of traveling or going on a vacation, now might be a good time to do that. Getting out of town for a week or an extended weekend would do you good and it would be less expensive now that you're single. Maybe you dreamed of going on a cruise or visiting a far away destination. Even if you lack the funds right now to go on that dream vacation, making plans, picking a destination and formulating a budget to achieve your goal is something that you can do. Then you will have something to look forward to in the near future.
A little trick that you might want to try is to post a lot of photos of your journey to social networking sites that your ex might be using to check up on you with. Take photos of yourself traveling to your destination as well as some photos of yourself having a good time. The fact that you're happy and enjoying life will make your ex jealous. You might worry that your ex will be offended that you are happy without them but remember, it was their choice to leave. It wasn't your decision. Nothing bad is going to happen because you are enjoying life. Your ex will actually find you more attractive. If they do say anything about your trip you can simply explain that you were grieving and you needed to get away to clear your mind and improve your mood.
Your overall aim should be to improve yourself and your life. Self-improvement means making yourself feel better about your life and your place in this world. Meditation, yoga, working out and improving your mind and the amount of happiness in your life is what self-improvement is all about. Reading, taking a few classes at your local collage or finding a new hobby such as kayaking or horseback riding are a few ways that you can add something interesting to your life and feel better about yourself.
Distracting yourself from the pain and anguish from your breakup might not be easy at times but you'll find more success in getting your ex back as a result. Time will pass more quickly and you and your life will become more attractive to your ex. The pressure will be off so your ex will begin to miss you and feel that perhaps they have made a mistake in leaving you. You will appear strong and attractive. While your friends and family will be happy that you appear to have move on and left the pain from your breakup behind, they don't have to know that you still wish to get back together with your ex. It's really none of their business. It is your little secret. It is time for you to focus on your life, your happiness and your goals until that day comes when your ex becomes curious about you. It won't take long. You very well might be surprised by a text message or a phone call when you least expect it. That's how life works and attraction works. When we stop pushing, things start to fall into place.
You might not want to admit it but the advice to move on with your life is probably the best advice for you at this particular moment. This is not to say that you have to give up on your dream of getting back together with your ex. Your heart feels what it feels. You can't change that, but you can't continue to put your life on hold while you wait for your ex to realize that they love you again. Wasting weeks or months of your life waiting for the days to pass is a waste of time. You must do something to preserve your sanity. Improving your life in a big way and taking your mind off of your ex for a short while might be the greatest thing that you ever did in your life. This moment in time can change your life for the better.
Take advantage of this time apart from your ex and start a small business. The freedom of having your own business will be very attractive to your ex and the added income can make life easier when you get back together. If you have every thought of having your own business then this period in your life might be the perfect time to move forward with that plan.
Taking a step back and diving head first into a business might be just what you need right now. Your focus will no longer be on your ex, what they're doing, what you can do to get them back or what went wrong in the past. Your focus will be on building something wonderful that will serve you, your life and very well the life that you build with your ex in the future. You will also have an easier time understanding what went wrong in your relationship once your mind is no longer obsessing about your ex. In addition, if you had been putting a lot of pressure on your ex to get back together, focusing on something else, such as a business, will remove that pressure. You might be surprised by the changes in your ex once you back off and begin focusing on your own life for a change. Starting a small business is a great way to do that while achieving something that most people only dream of.
If you have ever had the dream of traveling or going on a vacation, now might be a good time to do that. Getting out of town for a week or an extended weekend would do you good and it would be less expensive now that you're single. Maybe you dreamed of going on a cruise or visiting a far away destination. Even if you lack the funds right now to go on that dream vacation, making plans, picking a destination and formulating a budget to achieve your goal is something that you can do. Then you will have something to look forward to in the near future.
A little trick that you might want to try is to post a lot of photos of your journey to social networking sites that your ex might be using to check up on you with. Take photos of yourself traveling to your destination as well as some photos of yourself having a good time. The fact that you're happy and enjoying life will make your ex jealous. You might worry that your ex will be offended that you are happy without them but remember, it was their choice to leave. It wasn't your decision. Nothing bad is going to happen because you are enjoying life. Your ex will actually find you more attractive. If they do say anything about your trip you can simply explain that you were grieving and you needed to get away to clear your mind and improve your mood.
Your overall aim should be to improve yourself and your life. Self-improvement means making yourself feel better about your life and your place in this world. Meditation, yoga, working out and improving your mind and the amount of happiness in your life is what self-improvement is all about. Reading, taking a few classes at your local collage or finding a new hobby such as kayaking or horseback riding are a few ways that you can add something interesting to your life and feel better about yourself.
Distracting yourself from the pain and anguish from your breakup might not be easy at times but you'll find more success in getting your ex back as a result. Time will pass more quickly and you and your life will become more attractive to your ex. The pressure will be off so your ex will begin to miss you and feel that perhaps they have made a mistake in leaving you. You will appear strong and attractive. While your friends and family will be happy that you appear to have move on and left the pain from your breakup behind, they don't have to know that you still wish to get back together with your ex. It's really none of their business. It is your little secret. It is time for you to focus on your life, your happiness and your goals until that day comes when your ex becomes curious about you. It won't take long. You very well might be surprised by a text message or a phone call when you least expect it. That's how life works and attraction works. When we stop pushing, things start to fall into place.
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