Wanting to get back together with your ex girlfriend or your wife is a simple issue of mind over matter. You will find that your attitude has more to do with your success in your relationship with the woman of your dreams than anything else. While a woman might hear your words fine, she will judge you by your actions. You goal should be to show her with your actions that you are strong, fun to be around and the best man for her. You are confident and you need to instill a feeling of security in her when she is with you.
Being rejected by the woman you love can be stressful and demoralizing. If you have fallen apart in front of your girlfriend or wife because you are upset or emotionally wounded by her departure then you are normal. This doesn't mean that these emotional display aren't helping you. These emotions are probably linked to the true reason why she decided to leave you though. She might not even realize it but there is a very good chance that it is a lack of respect on her part that caused her to change how she thinks of you or views you as a man. Surely, she gave you many excuses for why she was leaving but these weren't the true reason. The root cause for why a woman usually leaves a relationship is usually how she feels about that man. It should be your goal to change how she thinks and feels about you. Avoid the temptation to cry, beg, plead or even ask about the possibility of getting back together at all cost. As a matter of fact, avoid all contact with your ex until you have your life back together and your attitude has changed.
You might cherish hearing her voice or seeing her face but there comes a time when the best thing that you can do is to walk away. Having an attitude that you are unwilling to tolerate bad behavior and ending a conversation or relationship when you are not receiving respect is important to a man. This means that if you do see her or talk with her and she is anything other than kind and respectful towards you, your response will be to walk away. This should be your attitude figuratively and literally. If she raises her voice, makes a face that tells you that she doesn't respect you or if she acts disrespectful in any way, you turn away from her and walk away after telling her that you're not going to put up with this type of behavior. You might worry that she won't care or that she will become more angry but you will find that the opposite is true. She might act like she doesn't care but instinctively, she will begin to gain some respect for you. She very well might begin to pursue you although she probably won't understand why and she might never apologize but the end result is our goal. That is, having your girlfriend or wife begin to respect you and admire you again.
Keeping your emotions in check is important. When was the last time you heard of a man that is highly respected crying or depressed over his broken heart? A real man takes the pain that life can sometimes dish out and turns that pain into a motivating factor in his life. From here on out, you are positive and optimistic about life. You have goals and dreams of what you want to do in life. You are filled with happiness and you ever look at your breakup as an opportunity to grow as a human being. When in the presence of your ex or anyone, for that matter, you are happy about life. If you are ever having a difficult time, control your emotions and tell yourself that you will process these emotions later when you're alone. If you continue to struggle, excuse yourself from the situation for a few minutes. Find a place where you can regain your composure and remind yourself that it is vitally important that you remain calm and positive in every situation. People are attracted to people who are strong and women, in particular, are attracted to men who are happy about life.
Control in a relationship or which partner wears the pants is always a struggle. Women often test a man and if you look back on events in your relationship you will agree that this is true. Now that your girlfriend or wife has left you, she may still attempt to test you or tell you what to do. Take control back and passively teach her that you are the man and that you'll make the decisions. She really doesn't want to make the decisions in the relationship. No woman does. It is all a test to see how strong you are as a man. The next time she attempts to exert her authority in your life by stating her opinion or actually telling you what you should do, make your own decision. For instance, let's say that you agree to meet and she suggests a time and place. Instead of agreeing, change the time and place to one more convenient for you. Even if you have to create an excuse, taking control in this small matter will help her to see that things have changed in your life. You're not trying to be difficult. Her suggestion simply does not suit you and you are making a decision.
Your self-confidence is the cornerstone of your success in any aspect of your life. Your ability to believe in yourself and what you can achieve will determine how hard you try and whether you give up on yourself. How can you expect a woman to love you if you don't have the same love and confidence in yourself? Your self-confidence or self-esteem is evident in how you handle yourself in all situations. Your ex will be able to see it in how you stand, your facial expression, the look in your eyes and your body language as a whole. If you are worried, scared, nervous or doubtful about anything, especially your ability to win your girlfriend or wife back, she will be able to see it in your body language. Work on your self-esteem every day. Work on your self-confidence the same way that you would work on any muscle group in your body. Spend some time telling yourself positive and optimistic things. Make a list of your redeeming qualities and stop comparing yourself to other men. In your world, you are the best and most important person. Without you, life ceases to exist in your world. Take care of yourself first so you can care for others such as the woman you love. Let that feeling be evident in how you walk, talk, stand, sit, smile, laugh and even chew bubble gum. Confidence and high self-esteem is very attractive to women and your ex is a woman so make it happen.
Relationships can be difficult at times. Loving a woman often gives them a lot of power in a relationship. It's sad when a woman takes advantage of that power and your kindness but you can take that power back and also restore the love that she once had for you. It's strange but women want what they feel they can not have. By following the suggestions here she will pick up on the fact that you are not the same man that she broke up with and you're not willing to grovel or beg for her to come back to her. This will all be highly attractive to her and before you know it she will become curious about what is going on in your life. The sooner you rebuild your life and become the man, the sooner she will come back to you. Be strong, be a man and get your ex girlfriend or wife back before some other guy takes her away from you completely.
Being rejected by the woman you love can be stressful and demoralizing. If you have fallen apart in front of your girlfriend or wife because you are upset or emotionally wounded by her departure then you are normal. This doesn't mean that these emotional display aren't helping you. These emotions are probably linked to the true reason why she decided to leave you though. She might not even realize it but there is a very good chance that it is a lack of respect on her part that caused her to change how she thinks of you or views you as a man. Surely, she gave you many excuses for why she was leaving but these weren't the true reason. The root cause for why a woman usually leaves a relationship is usually how she feels about that man. It should be your goal to change how she thinks and feels about you. Avoid the temptation to cry, beg, plead or even ask about the possibility of getting back together at all cost. As a matter of fact, avoid all contact with your ex until you have your life back together and your attitude has changed.
You might cherish hearing her voice or seeing her face but there comes a time when the best thing that you can do is to walk away. Having an attitude that you are unwilling to tolerate bad behavior and ending a conversation or relationship when you are not receiving respect is important to a man. This means that if you do see her or talk with her and she is anything other than kind and respectful towards you, your response will be to walk away. This should be your attitude figuratively and literally. If she raises her voice, makes a face that tells you that she doesn't respect you or if she acts disrespectful in any way, you turn away from her and walk away after telling her that you're not going to put up with this type of behavior. You might worry that she won't care or that she will become more angry but you will find that the opposite is true. She might act like she doesn't care but instinctively, she will begin to gain some respect for you. She very well might begin to pursue you although she probably won't understand why and she might never apologize but the end result is our goal. That is, having your girlfriend or wife begin to respect you and admire you again.
Keeping your emotions in check is important. When was the last time you heard of a man that is highly respected crying or depressed over his broken heart? A real man takes the pain that life can sometimes dish out and turns that pain into a motivating factor in his life. From here on out, you are positive and optimistic about life. You have goals and dreams of what you want to do in life. You are filled with happiness and you ever look at your breakup as an opportunity to grow as a human being. When in the presence of your ex or anyone, for that matter, you are happy about life. If you are ever having a difficult time, control your emotions and tell yourself that you will process these emotions later when you're alone. If you continue to struggle, excuse yourself from the situation for a few minutes. Find a place where you can regain your composure and remind yourself that it is vitally important that you remain calm and positive in every situation. People are attracted to people who are strong and women, in particular, are attracted to men who are happy about life.
Control in a relationship or which partner wears the pants is always a struggle. Women often test a man and if you look back on events in your relationship you will agree that this is true. Now that your girlfriend or wife has left you, she may still attempt to test you or tell you what to do. Take control back and passively teach her that you are the man and that you'll make the decisions. She really doesn't want to make the decisions in the relationship. No woman does. It is all a test to see how strong you are as a man. The next time she attempts to exert her authority in your life by stating her opinion or actually telling you what you should do, make your own decision. For instance, let's say that you agree to meet and she suggests a time and place. Instead of agreeing, change the time and place to one more convenient for you. Even if you have to create an excuse, taking control in this small matter will help her to see that things have changed in your life. You're not trying to be difficult. Her suggestion simply does not suit you and you are making a decision.
Your self-confidence is the cornerstone of your success in any aspect of your life. Your ability to believe in yourself and what you can achieve will determine how hard you try and whether you give up on yourself. How can you expect a woman to love you if you don't have the same love and confidence in yourself? Your self-confidence or self-esteem is evident in how you handle yourself in all situations. Your ex will be able to see it in how you stand, your facial expression, the look in your eyes and your body language as a whole. If you are worried, scared, nervous or doubtful about anything, especially your ability to win your girlfriend or wife back, she will be able to see it in your body language. Work on your self-esteem every day. Work on your self-confidence the same way that you would work on any muscle group in your body. Spend some time telling yourself positive and optimistic things. Make a list of your redeeming qualities and stop comparing yourself to other men. In your world, you are the best and most important person. Without you, life ceases to exist in your world. Take care of yourself first so you can care for others such as the woman you love. Let that feeling be evident in how you walk, talk, stand, sit, smile, laugh and even chew bubble gum. Confidence and high self-esteem is very attractive to women and your ex is a woman so make it happen.
Relationships can be difficult at times. Loving a woman often gives them a lot of power in a relationship. It's sad when a woman takes advantage of that power and your kindness but you can take that power back and also restore the love that she once had for you. It's strange but women want what they feel they can not have. By following the suggestions here she will pick up on the fact that you are not the same man that she broke up with and you're not willing to grovel or beg for her to come back to her. This will all be highly attractive to her and before you know it she will become curious about what is going on in your life. The sooner you rebuild your life and become the man, the sooner she will come back to you. Be strong, be a man and get your ex girlfriend or wife back before some other guy takes her away from you completely.
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