Are you unsure if the man that you're attracted to is interested in you? Are there times when you think that he's attracted to you yet at other times you're just not sure? Short of coming out and asking him if he likes you, how can you tell if he's attracted to you? How do you know if he is thinking the same things that you are? What signs will tell you if a man is attracted to you or not?
While it might easier if men would just come right out and tell you how they feel about you, where's the challenge in that? Dating and romance is a dance and even though you might feel like you're going crazy, this is the thrill of falling in love. Real men typically won't come right out and tell you that they're falling for you. Men are taught by society at a very young age that they should bury their feelings and keep their emotions inside. Although this might make things difficult for you, there are some signs that a guy is interested in you that will become apparent in his body or, more precisely, his body language.
First, has he ever touched you or do you remember a time when you remarked to yourself that it seemed like he was an affectionate kind of guy. Maybe he touches your arm or your shoulder when he's talking to you. Perhaps he has touched your back as you walk through a door in front of him. A man's desire to connect with you is difficult to hide and for some men this is a way to be affectionate during the beginning stages of a relationship without the risk. If he's touching you then there is a very good chance that he is attracted to you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Of course, there are guys that have been hurt in the past who might not abide by this rule. Shy guys will often avoid directly facing a woman that they are interested in. Also, if you're at a bar, it might be more difficult to face you directly than if you are sitting across from each other at a small table in a restaurant. Take notice the next time you are alone together. Notice if he faces you directly and what direction his feet are pointing.
The next time you meet the man of your dreams and you're alone, take a look at his eyes when he greets you. Do his eyes have a sparkle to them when he smiles at you? His body's reaction to seeing you will be unmistakable if he is falling in love with you. When a man begins to fall in love he will smile and his eyes will sparkle when he sees you. He will be unable to control this reaction so keep an eye out the next time you see him and you'll know for sure if he's attracted to you.
Try not to get concerned if he looks away or avoids eye contact for more than a few moments when you check to see if his eyes are sparkling. There are guys that are shy and sometimes awkwardly shy when they come face to face with a woman that they adore. It could be that he has some self-esteem issues or that he feels that you're way out of his league if he looks away. It's not that he doesn't find you attractive. The exact opposite is true. Let him become more sure of you and that you're not going to break his heart and you will see those sparkling eyes all the time.
If any of these signs sound familiar or you have seen these signs of attraction in the man of your dreams then that is indeed good news. If not, it could be that you simply weren't looking closely enough to see these signs. The harder he tries to hide the fact that he is attracted to you, the more apparent these signs will be. He can deny his emotions but he body simply won't allow him to hold his feelings inside completely. Be patient and know in your heart that he is interested in you. Take things as they come and understand that most guys don't like to talk about feelings. This doesn't mean that they don't exist. Men will only share their feelings with a woman that they truly trust.
While it might easier if men would just come right out and tell you how they feel about you, where's the challenge in that? Dating and romance is a dance and even though you might feel like you're going crazy, this is the thrill of falling in love. Real men typically won't come right out and tell you that they're falling for you. Men are taught by society at a very young age that they should bury their feelings and keep their emotions inside. Although this might make things difficult for you, there are some signs that a guy is interested in you that will become apparent in his body or, more precisely, his body language.
First, has he ever touched you or do you remember a time when you remarked to yourself that it seemed like he was an affectionate kind of guy. Maybe he touches your arm or your shoulder when he's talking to you. Perhaps he has touched your back as you walk through a door in front of him. A man's desire to connect with you is difficult to hide and for some men this is a way to be affectionate during the beginning stages of a relationship without the risk. If he's touching you then there is a very good chance that he is attracted to you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Of course, there are guys that have been hurt in the past who might not abide by this rule. Shy guys will often avoid directly facing a woman that they are interested in. Also, if you're at a bar, it might be more difficult to face you directly than if you are sitting across from each other at a small table in a restaurant. Take notice the next time you are alone together. Notice if he faces you directly and what direction his feet are pointing.
The next time you meet the man of your dreams and you're alone, take a look at his eyes when he greets you. Do his eyes have a sparkle to them when he smiles at you? His body's reaction to seeing you will be unmistakable if he is falling in love with you. When a man begins to fall in love he will smile and his eyes will sparkle when he sees you. He will be unable to control this reaction so keep an eye out the next time you see him and you'll know for sure if he's attracted to you.
Try not to get concerned if he looks away or avoids eye contact for more than a few moments when you check to see if his eyes are sparkling. There are guys that are shy and sometimes awkwardly shy when they come face to face with a woman that they adore. It could be that he has some self-esteem issues or that he feels that you're way out of his league if he looks away. It's not that he doesn't find you attractive. The exact opposite is true. Let him become more sure of you and that you're not going to break his heart and you will see those sparkling eyes all the time.
If any of these signs sound familiar or you have seen these signs of attraction in the man of your dreams then that is indeed good news. If not, it could be that you simply weren't looking closely enough to see these signs. The harder he tries to hide the fact that he is attracted to you, the more apparent these signs will be. He can deny his emotions but he body simply won't allow him to hold his feelings inside completely. Be patient and know in your heart that he is interested in you. Take things as they come and understand that most guys don't like to talk about feelings. This doesn't mean that they don't exist. Men will only share their feelings with a woman that they truly trust.
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