Attracting the man of your dreams or any man, for that matter, probably isn't as difficult as you are making it out to be. Once you know a few secrets about what men find attractive and how men think, you can leverage this covert intelligence to attract and connect with any man. No matter what you look like, how much you believe that he's out of your league or even if he already has a girlfriend, you can attract and connect with any many you choose once you understand how men think and process attraction.
You probably have already figured out that men feel things just a little bit differently than women. Attempting to get a guy's attention in the same way that you would like a man to approach you simply will not work. You can try being nice to him and engaging him in stimulating conversation but what is your goal? You aren't looking for another friend. You're hoping that he'll ask you out. You're not interested in being one of his many girlfriends. You want him to forget about every other woman in the room. You want him to pay attention to you and you alone. That is what we're talking about when we say that we're going to attract a man.
First, men are visual creatures. They are attracted to things visually at first. It doesn't matter if it's a car, a woman or a coffee maker. If it turns him on visually at first then you have his attention. If you are nervous because you feel that you're not the prettiest or thinnest or most attractive woman in the room, don't worry. All it takes is one thing for him to find you attractive. One physical feature is all that is necessary to get his attention and lead him to you. You don't have to be perfect. For every man that has ever approached a woman at a bar and asked for her number, all it took was one feature to initiate that attraction.
You don't have to be perfect or be the most beautiful girl in the room. All that is required is that you have one feature that is attractive. Perhaps someone has told you that you have pretty eyes or beautiful hair. Maybe you have shapely legs or a pleasant smile. You can accentuate these features and hide any features that you feel are unattractive. For instance, if you have nice hair but you have crooked teeth, braid your hair and avoid giving a toothy smile. If you have nice legs yet you don't like your hair, a dress or skirt that shows off your legs and perhaps a fashionable hat to hide your hair while adding some flair might be in order. Remember, you only have to have one or two attractive features that will get his attention long enough for you to break the ice and make him think about you.
Next, for a man, flirting is the only way that you're going to be able to let him know that you're interested in him without coming right out and saying the words. You might feel silly flirting or you might think that it doesn't work or that you're transparent but the truth is that it does work. Men love to be flirted with. In our present day, very few women openly flirt so if you have the courage to flirt with him, there will be no doubt about how you feel about him and you won't have to say a word.
Flirting involves everything that you have been led to believe it does. Batting your eyes at him, winking at him, laughing at his jokes, leaning in close when you talk to him and making eye contact are all methods of flirting that actually work. Touching him when you talk to him or when he's close is another great way to make a connection with him and make him feel something for you without being too forward. Flirting really is a lost art but you don't have to be skilled to flip your hair or look at him longingly through your tousled hair. Even smiling is a form of flirting but you have to know how to do it right.
Once you have gotten his attention it is time to connect with him and make him feel something special for you and you alone. Stimulating conversation is at the top of list of desire able traits in a mate for all of us but so many women fear that they have to be highly intelligent or that they have to impress a man to make a good impression. The truth is that people love to talk about themselves. By asking good questions and going beyond what any other woman might dare to ask, you can create a bond with him that will disarm him and make him feel like he has known you all his life or that you were meant to be together. It is all a matter of being a little bold as the conversation moves along and keeping the focus on him.
For instance, you might ask him what he does for a living. After he answers, asking him if this is what he envisioned himself doing when he was a kid, is a good question that will lead you into his private life. Dig deep and you will be able to get him to talk about his past, his family and even past relationships. He will bond with you and feel connected with you in a way that can only be surpassed by physical intimacy. Be aware of any hesitation in his voice. Assure him that you find him interesting and that you want to hear more about what he thinks and feels.
As you can see, creating a connection that is real and tangible isn't difficult. You can have fun while you attract that guy that you're interested in become someone that he truly appreciates and cherishes as a woman and a person. What you look like, how intelligent you are and your level of success isn't important to a man. How you make him feel when he is with you is the most attractive aspect of a relationship for a man. If he trusts you and feels that you're different than other women, he will share his most precious secrets with you. You will become someone crucial in his life and you won't have to worry about other women or having him lose interest in you. His affection and devotion will mirror the attention and passion that you show towards him. Understanding men and how they think and feel are the keys to making him fall in love with you. Once you understand what makes a man tick, attracting him will be simple.
You probably have already figured out that men feel things just a little bit differently than women. Attempting to get a guy's attention in the same way that you would like a man to approach you simply will not work. You can try being nice to him and engaging him in stimulating conversation but what is your goal? You aren't looking for another friend. You're hoping that he'll ask you out. You're not interested in being one of his many girlfriends. You want him to forget about every other woman in the room. You want him to pay attention to you and you alone. That is what we're talking about when we say that we're going to attract a man.
First, men are visual creatures. They are attracted to things visually at first. It doesn't matter if it's a car, a woman or a coffee maker. If it turns him on visually at first then you have his attention. If you are nervous because you feel that you're not the prettiest or thinnest or most attractive woman in the room, don't worry. All it takes is one thing for him to find you attractive. One physical feature is all that is necessary to get his attention and lead him to you. You don't have to be perfect. For every man that has ever approached a woman at a bar and asked for her number, all it took was one feature to initiate that attraction.
You don't have to be perfect or be the most beautiful girl in the room. All that is required is that you have one feature that is attractive. Perhaps someone has told you that you have pretty eyes or beautiful hair. Maybe you have shapely legs or a pleasant smile. You can accentuate these features and hide any features that you feel are unattractive. For instance, if you have nice hair but you have crooked teeth, braid your hair and avoid giving a toothy smile. If you have nice legs yet you don't like your hair, a dress or skirt that shows off your legs and perhaps a fashionable hat to hide your hair while adding some flair might be in order. Remember, you only have to have one or two attractive features that will get his attention long enough for you to break the ice and make him think about you.
Next, for a man, flirting is the only way that you're going to be able to let him know that you're interested in him without coming right out and saying the words. You might feel silly flirting or you might think that it doesn't work or that you're transparent but the truth is that it does work. Men love to be flirted with. In our present day, very few women openly flirt so if you have the courage to flirt with him, there will be no doubt about how you feel about him and you won't have to say a word.
Flirting involves everything that you have been led to believe it does. Batting your eyes at him, winking at him, laughing at his jokes, leaning in close when you talk to him and making eye contact are all methods of flirting that actually work. Touching him when you talk to him or when he's close is another great way to make a connection with him and make him feel something for you without being too forward. Flirting really is a lost art but you don't have to be skilled to flip your hair or look at him longingly through your tousled hair. Even smiling is a form of flirting but you have to know how to do it right.
Once you have gotten his attention it is time to connect with him and make him feel something special for you and you alone. Stimulating conversation is at the top of list of desire able traits in a mate for all of us but so many women fear that they have to be highly intelligent or that they have to impress a man to make a good impression. The truth is that people love to talk about themselves. By asking good questions and going beyond what any other woman might dare to ask, you can create a bond with him that will disarm him and make him feel like he has known you all his life or that you were meant to be together. It is all a matter of being a little bold as the conversation moves along and keeping the focus on him.
For instance, you might ask him what he does for a living. After he answers, asking him if this is what he envisioned himself doing when he was a kid, is a good question that will lead you into his private life. Dig deep and you will be able to get him to talk about his past, his family and even past relationships. He will bond with you and feel connected with you in a way that can only be surpassed by physical intimacy. Be aware of any hesitation in his voice. Assure him that you find him interesting and that you want to hear more about what he thinks and feels.
As you can see, creating a connection that is real and tangible isn't difficult. You can have fun while you attract that guy that you're interested in become someone that he truly appreciates and cherishes as a woman and a person. What you look like, how intelligent you are and your level of success isn't important to a man. How you make him feel when he is with you is the most attractive aspect of a relationship for a man. If he trusts you and feels that you're different than other women, he will share his most precious secrets with you. You will become someone crucial in his life and you won't have to worry about other women or having him lose interest in you. His affection and devotion will mirror the attention and passion that you show towards him. Understanding men and how they think and feel are the keys to making him fall in love with you. Once you understand what makes a man tick, attracting him will be simple.
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