Has your ex told you that they don't love you anymore? Do you want to get back together with your ex but you feel that if your ex doesn't love you then there's no hope. Yet, you have this feeling that your ex might be hiding their true emotions. You want to know if your ex has love in their heart for you and if you have a chance of getting back together.
While asking your ex if they are still in love with you might seem like a good idea, there's a very good chance that your ex still has feelings for you yet they are incapable of expressing those feelings. Many of us hide our emotions or our feelings become represses and they manifest in other ways through our actions and our words.
First, if you ex appears very angry or emotional when they are around you, there's a good chance that they are still in love with you. If you expresses their thoughts or feelings on certain topics or if they feel the need to point out your flaws, there's a good chance that something is going on in their heart.
There's an old saying that the opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. If your ex appears overly emotional and angry, it very well could be that they are hiding their emotions with this anger. Someone that doesn't care about you won't voice their opinion or thoughts about you, your life or your choices in life.
Your ex might try to cover over their emotions by verbally telling you that he or she doesn't care or that they feel nothing. This is a blatant attempt to hide their feelings for you. Your ex might even say that they don't love you anymore or that they don't think that they ever really loved you. Your ex may be emotionally upset and try to hide these feelings by overcompensating and denying the very emotions that they are fighting against.
The clue that your ex is in denial and their feelings are the opposite of what they are saying lies in visible clues called body language. All of us can lie and say anything that we want but you can't deny your body language. Take notice of how your ex stands and what they do with their hands. If you notice that your ex appears stern or stone-like then you can be sure that they're trying to hide their emotions that will apparent in their face. If your ex is trying to close off their emotions to you then they will stand with their arms firmly crossed in front of them. Does your ex hide their hands? If you notice your ex standing with their hands in their pants pockets then you can be reasonably sure that they're hiding something from you.
Lastly, avoidance, in general, is a clue that your ex still harbors some warm feelings for you. If your ex doesn't want to talk to you or of they refuse to look at you when you are talking then there's a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. Of course, if you have been on a campaign to win their heart back, it could be that your ex is annoyed with your behavior and they are avoiding you physically for this reason.
If you have been needy or trying to convince your ex to get back together with you since they left you then you should stop this behavior. It is very unattractive. On the other hand, if you have simply been friendly and you haven't been pressuring your ex to get back together with you then something is up. Your ex is still in love with you and they may have conflicting feelings that are causing them confusion and anxiety.
A breakup can be a very emotional experience for both you and your ex. Sorting out your feelings is difficult enough without having to decipher what your ex is thinking and feeling on a particular day. Keep in mind that no matter what your ex says or does, there will always be love in their heart for you. The more they resist feeling those emotions, the more you can be sure that your ex is still in love with you.
While asking your ex if they are still in love with you might seem like a good idea, there's a very good chance that your ex still has feelings for you yet they are incapable of expressing those feelings. Many of us hide our emotions or our feelings become represses and they manifest in other ways through our actions and our words.
First, if you ex appears very angry or emotional when they are around you, there's a good chance that they are still in love with you. If you expresses their thoughts or feelings on certain topics or if they feel the need to point out your flaws, there's a good chance that something is going on in their heart.
There's an old saying that the opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. If your ex appears overly emotional and angry, it very well could be that they are hiding their emotions with this anger. Someone that doesn't care about you won't voice their opinion or thoughts about you, your life or your choices in life.
Your ex might try to cover over their emotions by verbally telling you that he or she doesn't care or that they feel nothing. This is a blatant attempt to hide their feelings for you. Your ex might even say that they don't love you anymore or that they don't think that they ever really loved you. Your ex may be emotionally upset and try to hide these feelings by overcompensating and denying the very emotions that they are fighting against.
The clue that your ex is in denial and their feelings are the opposite of what they are saying lies in visible clues called body language. All of us can lie and say anything that we want but you can't deny your body language. Take notice of how your ex stands and what they do with their hands. If you notice that your ex appears stern or stone-like then you can be sure that they're trying to hide their emotions that will apparent in their face. If your ex is trying to close off their emotions to you then they will stand with their arms firmly crossed in front of them. Does your ex hide their hands? If you notice your ex standing with their hands in their pants pockets then you can be reasonably sure that they're hiding something from you.
Lastly, avoidance, in general, is a clue that your ex still harbors some warm feelings for you. If your ex doesn't want to talk to you or of they refuse to look at you when you are talking then there's a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. Of course, if you have been on a campaign to win their heart back, it could be that your ex is annoyed with your behavior and they are avoiding you physically for this reason.
If you have been needy or trying to convince your ex to get back together with you since they left you then you should stop this behavior. It is very unattractive. On the other hand, if you have simply been friendly and you haven't been pressuring your ex to get back together with you then something is up. Your ex is still in love with you and they may have conflicting feelings that are causing them confusion and anxiety.
A breakup can be a very emotional experience for both you and your ex. Sorting out your feelings is difficult enough without having to decipher what your ex is thinking and feeling on a particular day. Keep in mind that no matter what your ex says or does, there will always be love in their heart for you. The more they resist feeling those emotions, the more you can be sure that your ex is still in love with you.
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