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After College Meet Is Difficult

By Minnie Whitley


People in college find it easier than normal to get a date. It is interesting to note how things become different immediately one gets out of college. After college meet is not easy to identify. Again the number of men and women that one comes across daily are few. When one is working they spend most of their time with workmates and close people they live with.

It is easy for one in college to find their love because they have several people to choose from. Again the school environment is conducive for meeting different people. Every time you go to the dining hall, attend a flat party, to the library or football games you come across new people. This kind of environment makes one have a variety of he can choose from.

Life changes when one leaves university. Unlike school where one used to engage in a variety of activities in a day, life starts revolving around work and home. One has limited variety to choose from because you spend most of the time with workmates.

The transition from the school life to working can be depressing. People realize that their daily routine has changed to a few activities. You wake up prepare for work, go to job, get back home after job, most times you are fatigued and the best you can do is sleep. The following day one is forced to repeat everything. With this kind of a lifestyle one has no time to meet new men and women. The only people one comes across are workmates and close people they live with. For some reason people avoid dating people at their work places.

As people get older they begin to realize that meeting someone they like is far more difficult. Many especially those approaching thirties are caught up in this scenario. It has become increasing impossible to identify someone they can stand let alone love. Many that have tried dating have college say that the few men and women they come across have horrible taste, imprudent ideas and shitty qualities that they can stand.

The ugly truth is that most of the single people we see are not happy. The most exciting moments in the life of a human being is when they find a true love. Research has it that no one envisioned that they would be single. When people find themselves so busy that their life is ruled by work, it is time to stop and reflect. Perhaps engaging in social activities may work for them.

There several strategies that can help one find a date especially if they are too busy to go out and bump into new people. Online dating is the fastest and easiest way to come across new people. It is also important that cultivate the culture of engaging in outdoor activities such as a walk. Most importantly despite how busy you are try set aside some time to pursue your passions such as sports.

Every one you meet after university has a hidden motive. Most of the women want to get married while majority of the men are looking for someone to have fun with. This factor has made it more difficult to understand people and eventually one walks away feeling disappointed.




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