Someone, I don't know who, once perfectly said it...something like...if your value is decided by others compliments, then you also will be annihilated by their feedback.
I didn't really understand this quote till recently. But now, I really get it.
I guess this is the 1st time in a while that I've been told about somebody saying bad things about me behind my back. For a second, it rocked me. For the minutes to hours after, it fueled me. I put those comments in a special place within me that I'm able to go to each and every day when I need them. The truth is, incentive is many things for many different types of people. Ideally you would like to set a positive goal for yourself and work towards achieving that goal. Nonetheless the fuel we must use may not always be clean.
Sometimes, it might sometimes burn black.
I mostly talk of the balance of life...light and dark...especially within the soul, and I think that we can find things within ourselves which will fuel our actions even though the fuel itself isn't pure. I'm talking about the times somebody recounted something harmful, horrible, rude or merely savage in all. For some, those things can absolutely ruin their ambitions. To be truthful, that occurred many times with me. I didn't have the belief in myself yet to "do it" irrespective of what anyone expounded.
These things that other people say, at the end, aren't even really about you. I know cause I have been on the other side. I can recollect a time when I wouldn't say say very nice things because I hated myself. I hated that they were doing it and I couldn't do it. I hated everything about that person because they could make the sacrifices...they had the willpower...they were actually...doing what I had always dreamed about daily.
You can spend your life blaming others and attempting to bring others down because you've got a useless life or you can focus on loving yourself and others, something you actually truly need so as to be a positive thinking person and motivate people and their dreams. At the end, spewing hate only tears you apart. Karma really does come around in some way or other and takes care of business. Been there also.
You are either for others or against them.
Be for others. Be for their dreams...that makes you a warm person deep inside. Be for relationships. That cold heart you are harboring is only going to freeze harder and finally split up into tons of pieces. Hate, envy, and anger will cut you in half and you may spend a boatload of years battling between the loving side and the terrible side. Once again, been there. Regardless of what you do, others are going to not like you for some reason. They are going to be rubbed the wrong way, they will really not like your hair, your eyes, your nose, your smell, your image...they will find some way. Don't sweat it. You are on course. Because nobody has ever talked trash about someone that actually failed to mean something to them in some way.
Remember that. Not everybody is going to like peaches.
So you must truly actually matter to them. So much, in fact, they have been taking time out of their day to speak about you. What an accolade.
So cheers...haters...I tip my cap to you. I must be headed in the correct direction.
I didn't really understand this quote till recently. But now, I really get it.
I guess this is the 1st time in a while that I've been told about somebody saying bad things about me behind my back. For a second, it rocked me. For the minutes to hours after, it fueled me. I put those comments in a special place within me that I'm able to go to each and every day when I need them. The truth is, incentive is many things for many different types of people. Ideally you would like to set a positive goal for yourself and work towards achieving that goal. Nonetheless the fuel we must use may not always be clean.
Sometimes, it might sometimes burn black.
I mostly talk of the balance of life...light and dark...especially within the soul, and I think that we can find things within ourselves which will fuel our actions even though the fuel itself isn't pure. I'm talking about the times somebody recounted something harmful, horrible, rude or merely savage in all. For some, those things can absolutely ruin their ambitions. To be truthful, that occurred many times with me. I didn't have the belief in myself yet to "do it" irrespective of what anyone expounded.
These things that other people say, at the end, aren't even really about you. I know cause I have been on the other side. I can recollect a time when I wouldn't say say very nice things because I hated myself. I hated that they were doing it and I couldn't do it. I hated everything about that person because they could make the sacrifices...they had the willpower...they were actually...doing what I had always dreamed about daily.
You can spend your life blaming others and attempting to bring others down because you've got a useless life or you can focus on loving yourself and others, something you actually truly need so as to be a positive thinking person and motivate people and their dreams. At the end, spewing hate only tears you apart. Karma really does come around in some way or other and takes care of business. Been there also.
You are either for others or against them.
Be for others. Be for their dreams...that makes you a warm person deep inside. Be for relationships. That cold heart you are harboring is only going to freeze harder and finally split up into tons of pieces. Hate, envy, and anger will cut you in half and you may spend a boatload of years battling between the loving side and the terrible side. Once again, been there. Regardless of what you do, others are going to not like you for some reason. They are going to be rubbed the wrong way, they will really not like your hair, your eyes, your nose, your smell, your image...they will find some way. Don't sweat it. You are on course. Because nobody has ever talked trash about someone that actually failed to mean something to them in some way.
Remember that. Not everybody is going to like peaches.
So you must truly actually matter to them. So much, in fact, they have been taking time out of their day to speak about you. What an accolade.
So cheers...haters...I tip my cap to you. I must be headed in the correct direction.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Need to move on? A lover talking behind your back? Try out these ex boyfriend quotes.
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