Stop looking for your other half.
What?!
That may sound completely contradictory to anything you've heard before, nevertheless searching for your "other half" unfortunately does indicate that you are not basically a whole person in the first instance. It indicates, that you really do not have everything within you already that you need to live a very cheerful life. Isn't life about really seeing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative look out for the person who will be your teammate. Look for someone who challenges you to be something larger than you have ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support too. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always come and go. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time eventually end and you need to go on living your life. The individual that is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you really wouldn't be broken to pieces when they are finally gone. So be an entire person who can love another in full. Be the best version you may be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find another who'll do the same, then you can meet together as two whole people who appreciate and value each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are unfinished without a person there? Wouldn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the ability to reach your actual potential?
Find your teammate, you will be way better off. These relationships bloom.
What?!
That may sound completely contradictory to anything you've heard before, nevertheless searching for your "other half" unfortunately does indicate that you are not basically a whole person in the first instance. It indicates, that you really do not have everything within you already that you need to live a very cheerful life. Isn't life about really seeing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative look out for the person who will be your teammate. Look for someone who challenges you to be something larger than you have ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support too. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always come and go. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time eventually end and you need to go on living your life. The individual that is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you really wouldn't be broken to pieces when they are finally gone. So be an entire person who can love another in full. Be the best version you may be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find another who'll do the same, then you can meet together as two whole people who appreciate and value each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are unfinished without a person there? Wouldn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the ability to reach your actual potential?
Find your teammate, you will be way better off. These relationships bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Time to move on from an old relationship, start working on yourself, and diving into what life has to offer? Dig into these quotes about moving on for some great perspective.
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