Love can be a complicated process. You question whether the one that you are with is really into you. Things go through your mind that have you wondering if he is cheating or can he just be with you for the rest of his life. So, you come up with true love tests to put him through and pray that he will pass. Sometimes, you get the results that you want, but then there are other times that you might be left thinking what have you got yourself into.
So, is checking and behind your man the way to win in his heart? Probably not, but it sure can give you some much needed answers. For instance, it might bother you that he has never taken you to visit his family members. Most importantly, there has never been a visit to see mom. That is definitely a red flag, especially if you have been dating for at least a year.
Put him through the time to get married test. Find out just exactly what his views are on marriage, if he does not cringe at hearing the mere sign of marriage, you just might have a winner. Ask him about going to pick out engagement rings, after all you have been dating for a few years now.
Many men do not like to feel as if they have to prove their love to you. If they have been with you for a certain amount of months or years they feel as if that should be proof enough. If you ever begin putting them through a test it is best that you never own up to it, or mention it to a friend. Because if it was to ever get back to your man, he may never trust you again. He might also rethink being in a relationship with you.
Another thought, are you allowed to use his cellphone at any time. Now, a man who does not have anything to hide, and his friends are your friends, will allow you to scroll through his phone, answer calls and read his text. If he does not you have a problem on your hands. Be careful if he sleeps with his phone, goes to the bathroom with his phone and eat with it. Trust that you are not the only person in his life, and the other woman is definitely not his mother.
There are many things that will tell you if your man is really into you. However, do you think you should have to go through all the trouble to figure him out? Love and trust should feel automatically. You should not have to worry about whether or not your man loves you. He should show you every day that you are only the only special person in his life.
He should be willing to shout it from the roof top that he loves and cares about you, and only you. He should want to introduce you to his friends, and spend almost every waking moment making you happy. There is nothing that he should not do for you, and nothing that you want do for him.
However, nine times out of ten you are going to lose that man. He has probably been looking for a way to get out the relationship anyway, and once he find out you have been spying and testing him, he will be out the door. So, do a little testing his love for you over time, but do not get outrageous with it. If you do, he will be out of the door before you can blink your eyes.
So, is checking and behind your man the way to win in his heart? Probably not, but it sure can give you some much needed answers. For instance, it might bother you that he has never taken you to visit his family members. Most importantly, there has never been a visit to see mom. That is definitely a red flag, especially if you have been dating for at least a year.
Put him through the time to get married test. Find out just exactly what his views are on marriage, if he does not cringe at hearing the mere sign of marriage, you just might have a winner. Ask him about going to pick out engagement rings, after all you have been dating for a few years now.
Many men do not like to feel as if they have to prove their love to you. If they have been with you for a certain amount of months or years they feel as if that should be proof enough. If you ever begin putting them through a test it is best that you never own up to it, or mention it to a friend. Because if it was to ever get back to your man, he may never trust you again. He might also rethink being in a relationship with you.
Another thought, are you allowed to use his cellphone at any time. Now, a man who does not have anything to hide, and his friends are your friends, will allow you to scroll through his phone, answer calls and read his text. If he does not you have a problem on your hands. Be careful if he sleeps with his phone, goes to the bathroom with his phone and eat with it. Trust that you are not the only person in his life, and the other woman is definitely not his mother.
There are many things that will tell you if your man is really into you. However, do you think you should have to go through all the trouble to figure him out? Love and trust should feel automatically. You should not have to worry about whether or not your man loves you. He should show you every day that you are only the only special person in his life.
He should be willing to shout it from the roof top that he loves and cares about you, and only you. He should want to introduce you to his friends, and spend almost every waking moment making you happy. There is nothing that he should not do for you, and nothing that you want do for him.
However, nine times out of ten you are going to lose that man. He has probably been looking for a way to get out the relationship anyway, and once he find out you have been spying and testing him, he will be out the door. So, do a little testing his love for you over time, but do not get outrageous with it. If you do, he will be out of the door before you can blink your eyes.
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