What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you actually took some time to dive into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it actually helped create you?
These are tricky questions to ask yourself. But, they are incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way and in all honesty there is not any worse feeling in the world. You're feeling totally horrible for what seems like forever and the sensations of loss never really seem to depart. As long as we keep playing on the field of life, we're going to suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break from time to time.
But what if, when heartbreak happens, we allow it to show us where we really must do deep interpersonal work? How can we take the agony of loss and be well placed to create something gorgeous with it?
I'm not advising that we should attempt to ascend above our discomfort, but rather as an alternative try and take our own pain and birth something positive and beautiful out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the same time one that could make an amazing difference when we are confronted with deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that discomfort inside and turn it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is inside of you instead of letting it eat you day after day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
What if you actually took some time to dive into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it actually helped create you?
These are tricky questions to ask yourself. But, they are incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way and in all honesty there is not any worse feeling in the world. You're feeling totally horrible for what seems like forever and the sensations of loss never really seem to depart. As long as we keep playing on the field of life, we're going to suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break from time to time.
But what if, when heartbreak happens, we allow it to show us where we really must do deep interpersonal work? How can we take the agony of loss and be well placed to create something gorgeous with it?
I'm not advising that we should attempt to ascend above our discomfort, but rather as an alternative try and take our own pain and birth something positive and beautiful out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the same time one that could make an amazing difference when we are confronted with deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that discomfort inside and turn it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is inside of you instead of letting it eat you day after day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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