Stop searching for your other half.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
So as an alternative to searching for your other half, look for someone who can be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
As life continuously morphs and changes, we have to deal with the inevitable fact that we are going to lose our relationships over time. We are going to struggle to handle the grief that comes along with losing people we care about. But when we are whole people, those who constantly grow and develop as individuals, we can show up in a relationship with another person and giving them our best without expecting them to give theirs.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who will do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the power to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
So as an alternative to searching for your other half, look for someone who can be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
As life continuously morphs and changes, we have to deal with the inevitable fact that we are going to lose our relationships over time. We are going to struggle to handle the grief that comes along with losing people we care about. But when we are whole people, those who constantly grow and develop as individuals, we can show up in a relationship with another person and giving them our best without expecting them to give theirs.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who will do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the power to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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