"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why do we get so scared when we have to let go of something?
Because we don't think we will find something better.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
But when you really look at it, we live in a world full of "one thing ending and another thing replacing it." It's just our minds that keep us stuck always thinking about things that happened in the past. It's our minds that keep us out of living in the present moment.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
If we stay open, another person will come into your life and heal all of the pain that the previous person had created. They will care for you in ways that makes you feel at ease once again.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And again...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life will always give you precisely what you need vs what you think you want.
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Continue trusting your path.
Why do we get so scared when we have to let go of something?
Because we don't think we will find something better.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
But when you really look at it, we live in a world full of "one thing ending and another thing replacing it." It's just our minds that keep us stuck always thinking about things that happened in the past. It's our minds that keep us out of living in the present moment.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
If we stay open, another person will come into your life and heal all of the pain that the previous person had created. They will care for you in ways that makes you feel at ease once again.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And again...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life will always give you precisely what you need vs what you think you want.
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Continue trusting your path.
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