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Where And How To Meet Women

By Delany Kuijstermans


I know it may be shocking to a few but the bar or the party are not the best places to meet women to date. Why is that? Their defenses are going to be up and they'll be expecting all types of guys to be either drunk or sober to be hitting on them all night. So let's change the atmosphere and find other places that will help us be more successful with our attempts.

If you are a member of a club or organization, you may want to consider dating someone who's a member. You'll both have something in common for one thing. Plus you've seen how she handles herself in a social setting so there won't be too much you'll learn new up under the sun.Church is another good place to meet single women. Should it be that there aren't any single women available where you are now, you can go visit other churches where there may be women available.

Any place is a potential area where you can meet women. Malls, parks and beaches are some of the common places where you can find women. In malls, women usually shop with some group of friends. Malls are great areas to find and meet women since it is a place where people unwind. Increase your probability of success by going and visiting parks.

If you are divorced/ single parent or would not mind dating someone with children, then next time your son's or daughter's school call for a meeting then be at your best. Here is where to meet women, who are responsible, mature and most likely know what they want in life. Don't hesitate to start a conversation. You have numerous openings to strike a useful discussion.

Attend festivals and street parties. Big events are attended by women who have fun as they hang around with other friends. You might meet someone who stirs your interest and share the same passions in life like music, dance and sports. Another thing that you must try is head of to the beach during summer, where women are scattered everywhere. You can never tell what will happen and who you can meet on these places.

Semi-public places like the public library, train, gym, coffee houses, bars and clubs. The public library is a good place to find women who are interested in reading wide array of topics. If this is your kind of woman, go for it. You may be lucky to find one. Public mode of transportation like trains, busses or even cruises is also a great idea to find a lady who has the passion for travel and culture.

If you are just looking for a fun time or a small fling, than bars and clubs might be your solution. Since everyone is usually drinking and in a good mood, you have a great opportunity to buy women drinks, ask them to dance, or just start a good conversation. These places are not known as great places to find actual relationships, but have a good success rate on taking women home for a small fling.

Helpful tip: Get 2 PROFESSIONAL photos. One in your best suit. The other more casual. You should NOT write a book in your introduction. Just tell potential ladies that you are looking for a self-reliant woman to share some laughs with as you get to know her over coffee. The most important thing is that you pass the physical attraction test and are able to get her out to meet you for coffee. You will never sell her on a relationship over cyberspace so just keep it light and funny and hope you get to meet her in person.

Usually about 20 men and 20 women get together in a speed dating event (just search for "speed dating" and your city name to see if there are events in your area). The ladies stay in their seats and the men move around the room from woman to woman in a timed fashion, anywhere from 3 to 8 minutes. You meet each other, write down some pertinent data about each other and if you are interested in meeting again you will each check a box on a form and the organizers of the event will give you her contact information and vice versa. It is up to you after that! Again, the women that show up here are generally interested in a relationship. You do not have to wonder if she will talk to you or not as the women there show up to talk to you and find a guy!




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