Is there one certain guy that you're interested in these days? Is he perfect for you in every way except for one? He isn't as attracted to you as you are to him. Perhaps he knows you or maybe you're just a passing acquaintance. Either way, you wish that he would pay more attention to you. You wish that he was attracted to you and that he would ask you out on a date.
Before you throw up your hands in disgust or give up on yourself because you feel that you're not pretty enough or not able to flirt effectively, keep in mind that many of the things that you have heard about men simply aren't true. While men are attracted to things visually first, this doesn't mean that you don't have a chance with even the most attractive men. A real man will often fall in love with a girl who is plain yet attractive in other ways before he will commit to a girl that is as beautiful as a model. He might initially become attracted to a certain type of woman but when the day is done, a man will choose to be in a relationship with a woman for some very different reasons other than how she looks.
While we all smile and we all might agree that you look better when you smile, there is a certain smile that will make a man stop and take notice. When a woman is in love with a man or when she finds him attractive, her whole face smiles. Her eyes sparkle and there is love in how she looks at him. Most men will tell you that this is true. They might even remark that it was a girl's smile that first attracted them to a particular woman. Smiling at him in this way can let him know that you have feelings for him. That smile will tell him everything that he needs to know if you can execute it correctly.
Practice smiling in the mirror as you think about the guy that you're interested in. Close your eyes, think about him, open your eyes and then smile a nice, natural smile. A fake smile sends the message that you're hiding something. It's unnatural. This is the smile that you give to friends and coworkers. The smile for that special man is a little bit different. Practice smiling naturally and show him that smile the next time you see him.
If you have known this guy for a period of time, there's a pretty good chance that he knows your style. He may already be accustomed to seeing you on a regular basis. He has an expectation or thought inside his mind about who you are. It could be that he already likes you but you want him to look at you differently. Since men are visual in nature, this means changing how you look. Dramatic changes aren't necessary. A few simple changes or trying a different style the next time he sees you should do the trick.
For instance, if you normally dress casually then perhaps you can try dressing up for a change. If you normally wear jeans and tennis shoes, try wearing a pair of high heels with those jeans. If you like wearing high heels and skirt with your hair down, try a long dress with your hair up. If you always look dressed up, try a more casual look with a pair of jean and a hat for a change. The whole idea is to make him view you differently, take notice of you and become interested in you.
The next trick might sound a little daring but you can pull it off if you can manage to act casual about it. The next time you see him or talk to him, be sure to touch him. Make physical contact with him by touching his arm or shoulder or back. If he walks by you and says hello, just reach out and touch him ever so gently. This contact will send him a non-verbal message that you are interested in him without hugging him or grabbing him or even having to tell him that you find him attractive.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
These methods are by no means the only tricks that you can use to attract the man of your dreams. They are some of the more mild methods for creating attraction and rapport with a man. They're safe and you're never going to get rejected when using these tips. Simply gather up all the self-confidence that you have and try them out today. You might be surprised at the reaction that you get. Often all it takes is a few gentle nudges to get a guy interested and then the chase is on. Be brave and be strong and go get the man of your dreams.
Before you throw up your hands in disgust or give up on yourself because you feel that you're not pretty enough or not able to flirt effectively, keep in mind that many of the things that you have heard about men simply aren't true. While men are attracted to things visually first, this doesn't mean that you don't have a chance with even the most attractive men. A real man will often fall in love with a girl who is plain yet attractive in other ways before he will commit to a girl that is as beautiful as a model. He might initially become attracted to a certain type of woman but when the day is done, a man will choose to be in a relationship with a woman for some very different reasons other than how she looks.
While we all smile and we all might agree that you look better when you smile, there is a certain smile that will make a man stop and take notice. When a woman is in love with a man or when she finds him attractive, her whole face smiles. Her eyes sparkle and there is love in how she looks at him. Most men will tell you that this is true. They might even remark that it was a girl's smile that first attracted them to a particular woman. Smiling at him in this way can let him know that you have feelings for him. That smile will tell him everything that he needs to know if you can execute it correctly.
Practice smiling in the mirror as you think about the guy that you're interested in. Close your eyes, think about him, open your eyes and then smile a nice, natural smile. A fake smile sends the message that you're hiding something. It's unnatural. This is the smile that you give to friends and coworkers. The smile for that special man is a little bit different. Practice smiling naturally and show him that smile the next time you see him.
If you have known this guy for a period of time, there's a pretty good chance that he knows your style. He may already be accustomed to seeing you on a regular basis. He has an expectation or thought inside his mind about who you are. It could be that he already likes you but you want him to look at you differently. Since men are visual in nature, this means changing how you look. Dramatic changes aren't necessary. A few simple changes or trying a different style the next time he sees you should do the trick.
For instance, if you normally dress casually then perhaps you can try dressing up for a change. If you normally wear jeans and tennis shoes, try wearing a pair of high heels with those jeans. If you like wearing high heels and skirt with your hair down, try a long dress with your hair up. If you always look dressed up, try a more casual look with a pair of jean and a hat for a change. The whole idea is to make him view you differently, take notice of you and become interested in you.
The next trick might sound a little daring but you can pull it off if you can manage to act casual about it. The next time you see him or talk to him, be sure to touch him. Make physical contact with him by touching his arm or shoulder or back. If he walks by you and says hello, just reach out and touch him ever so gently. This contact will send him a non-verbal message that you are interested in him without hugging him or grabbing him or even having to tell him that you find him attractive.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
These methods are by no means the only tricks that you can use to attract the man of your dreams. They are some of the more mild methods for creating attraction and rapport with a man. They're safe and you're never going to get rejected when using these tips. Simply gather up all the self-confidence that you have and try them out today. You might be surprised at the reaction that you get. Often all it takes is a few gentle nudges to get a guy interested and then the chase is on. Be brave and be strong and go get the man of your dreams.
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